Wifes refusing to cook.. rcr can help ?

Guest (Querist) 08 September 2014 This query is : Resolved
Hello sir.. i wanted to know what happens when wife refused to cook and clean.. its been a month like this.. and i cannot afford to bring food from outside.. i work a job and she is housewife.

She refuses to do a job also.(work outside the home and get money)

We have no children.

its just me and her living in a rented flat .. no in-laws are there.

I heard about filing RCR .. will it be of any help ?

I dont want to hit or abuse her.. as i dont want to get in trouble.. but she is causing me a lot of mental pain by these actions.

When a husband dose not do his job and provide for the wife.. he is brutally thrown in jail for years..losses his job and his dignity..

what happens if the wife dose not perform her duty ? any action can be taken against it or Indian men have no rights ?

Will me filing rcr will help ?

i dont want to have a divorce.. i want to continue in the marriage as it has been only 1 year but she refusing to cook and clean.. what can be done next ?

i want divorce to be the last step.. if nothing can be done.. and if i get a divorce by court when she says in court herself that she will not cook or clean nor will do a job..will i have to pay maintenance ?

is Indian law any help to men or is it just biased and unjust towards men ?

and also.. she has not deserted me .. she is living with me.. the house is complete mess and my clothes are not washed.. if i dont bring food or eat outside she will cook Maggi/something small for herself and eat off.. but she wont cook normal food for me.

i work 11 hours a day with 2 hours on road.. i cannot cook and clean for myself.. it was her duty if she is not doing a job.

Please note : She is very stubborn and is saying that she will say directly in court that she will not cook or clean or even get a job.. and courts cant do anything against her.. is it true ?

she says if i stop giving her money she will throw me in jail under maintenance act.. as its my duty to provide.. but she has no duty towards me by law.. is it true ?

is Indian law any help to men or is it just biased and unjust towards men ?

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P. Venu (Expert) 08 September 2014
There is no law that it is the wife's responsibility to cook. Marriage,more than anything, is sharing responsibility - that includes cooking also.

Devajyoti Barman (Expert) 08 September 2014
Sorry, you can not force your wife to cook.
RCR ha nothing to do with making the wives cook.
It is upto you to improve your relations with your wife. You may seek intervention of the family elders to resolve the dispute.

ajay sethi (Expert) 08 September 2014
rCR can be filed only if your wife has left matrimonial home . your wife is only refusing to cook . you can force her to cook . hire a cook if necessary .

Guest (Querist) 08 September 2014
So i am supposed to work for 13 hours and then cook and clean for her for more 5 hours ? and no sleep no rest ? only work like a slave ?

i have only responsibilities and no rights on her ?

while she has only rights and no responsibilities ?

If its my duty to provide ? whats her duty ?

and can she force me to provide for her ?

she says she will throw me in jail if i stop paying her money..

i cannot afford to hire a cook.

is Indian law that bad for men ?

i have only responsibilities and no rights on her ?

while she has only rights and no responsibilities ?

If its a sharing responsibility then.. what is she doing ? she is just sitting home watching tv !

is indian law that bad for men ? and if i file for divorce i will have to pay her maintenance ?

so now i am a slave ? is there any way i can escape this mental abuse ? expect licking my wife's feet ? has Indian law gone crazy ? I really have to work like a slave ? with no rights ? and only responsibilities ?

can i at-lest stop giving her money ? or force her to do a job ?

is suicide only way out ?

If there is no law which says its her work to do the household.. then why is there a law that says its my work to provide for her ? GENDER Bias ?

ajay sethi (Expert) 08 September 2014
marriage is about mutual adjustment sharing of responsibilities between couple . you can . file for divorce if you are un happy in marriage on grounds of mental cruelty but you have to prove your case . merely because wife refuses to cook is no grounds for divorce . as man it is your duty to provide for your wife

Guest (Querist) 08 September 2014
If as a man its my responsibility to provide..?

then as a women whats her responsibility ?

If i prove her cruelty .. and divorce will i have to pay her ?

wife refusing to cook from 1 month is cruelty.

and my question is..

If as a man its my responsibility to provide..?

then as a women whats her responsibility ?

where is the law which says she has to do her duty ??

whats her duty ?

why is law so biased ?

ajay sethi (Expert) 08 September 2014
if your wife is not working you will have to pay her maintenance if you file for divorce . law is biased in favour of women as they are regarded more as victims

Guest (Querist) 08 September 2014
So you are telling me any women can marry any man and abuse him and sit at home deny all her duty and refuse to do anything..refuse to cook or clean and refuse to do a job.

and then force the guy to divorce her causing him mental abuse and the guy has to pay her money for it as a thank you note ? even if her cruelty was proven by courts ?

That is justice in inidan law ?

Yes she is not working.

So.. if some guy raped some girl in a village .. now i have to pay for it ? taking all this bias laws ? why dont jews kill us all..as they were victims once ? why should i suffer .. if women were victim once ?

is it not the duty of law to do the justice ? Is this justice in Indian law.. ? No wonder india suffers huge brain drain.

is it not the duty of law to do the justice ?

and btw.. you dint answer my question.

If its my responsibility to provide.. then whats her responsibility ?

Isaac Gabriel (Expert) 08 September 2014
If cooking is the only concern,dont worry.All the items are available in packaged contents and you can adjust with,till both of you come to an understanding as to how best u can manage your foodstuffs.I don't think law will help you in any way.But,you should think positively in leading a family life.Just think of feeding the child.Could she refuse?

malipeddi jaggarao (Expert) 08 September 2014
You are agitating over the situation.
She is refusing to cook for the last month.
When you got married? Is it love marriage or arranged marriage? If arranged marriage why don't you rope in the elders from both sides and vent out your feeling with a request to find solution.
Yours is isolated case. You can not blame the judicial system for isolated case.
If she has been cooking all the time and all of the sudden if she refuses, you should find out the root cause.
Some times, this type of behaviour is mental disorder. You can take her to a doctor. It is only month your ordeal started. Exercise patience, show affection, rope-in the elders, take her to a doctor. These steps may give some solution.

Guest (Querist) 08 September 2014
@ isaac sir. We have no children

@ malipeddi .. we got married 1 years ago.

Yes all of the sudden she stopped cooking and cleaning and she is saying .. she will do it for the rest of her life unless i submit to her every demand.

She is also taking money from me for her expenses saying if i dont pay her she will throw me in jail under maintenance act.

her elderly are refusing to come in between saying its your matter you solve it.

I work for 13 hours.. i have to sleep 8 hours to do a normal job..

if i come home and cook and clean for my self, iron my own clothes then my life will be of a slave.. her slave as i also have to pay for her expenses or she will throw me in jail.

she is saying if anything goes wrong she ill put 498a and other things on me... if i dint submit to her.. and if i dare to hit her she will throw me in jail again under dv act.. she is blackmailing me..

she dose refuse do a job.. she just sits at home watching tv and doing whatever she likes..

there is no love left between us.. she is abusive to me and talked very rude.

when she cook.. she only cooks for her self and only clean her own clothes .. she is not giving me anything..why am i paying her ? This is MENTAL ABUSE.

i cannot bow-down to her and lick her feet..

her simple answer to every question is.. i will do whatever i want.. and you will also do whatever i want..

my question.. in law you people have enforced me to pay for her expenses.. or i will be jailed..

then by law what is her duty ?

what is the marital duty of wife by law ?

how can only man have duty in eyes of law and women dont ?

whats her duty by law ? how can law forget duty of wife ? and why cant i blame law for my suffering ? she is blackmailing by using law only !

Devajyoti Barman (Expert) 08 September 2014
Hire a cook than posting queries here.

V R SHROFF (Expert) 08 September 2014
WHAT IS DUTY OF WIFE???
I mean Legal duty..not cooking or cleaning.
You can hire cook, cleaner, but cannot hire a husband or wife....
u understood??? Wife is not a servant.

RCR is irrelevant, immaterial in your case.

Both of you amicably settle your PRIVATE ISSUES & DISPUTES. HAVE FEW ISSUES AND THERE WILL BE NO FURTHER ISSUE OR DISPUTES ok

YOU HAVE NO GROUND TO GET DIVORCE..

SO HANDLE YOUR WIFE TACTFULLY...

Guest (Querist) 08 September 2014
WIFE IS NOT SERVANT ? I UNDERSTOOD..

THEN WHY IS HUSBAND A SERVANT ?

why is it my duty to provide for her ? LIKE A SERVANT ?

and whats her duty towards me if its not cooking or cleaning ?

what is her duty ?

you say husbands duty is to provide or he will go to jail..

then i am asking you.. what is the duty of wife ? how can only husband have a duty ?

name a few duties of wife ? will you ?

I have a grounds to get divorce ? whats the use of it if i will still pay her my salary ? this is crazy.. i will loose money in all the cases..her moto of getting money out of me will be completed if i divorce her.. as she will still get money out of me and i will still be working for her..and paying her..

you say husbands duty is to provide or he will go to jail..

then i am asking you.. what is the duty of wife ? how can only husband have a duty ?

name a few duties of wife ? will you ? INDIAN LAW IS PURE SEXIST AND BIASED AGAINST MEN.. THERE IS NO JUSTICE.. ONLY WAY OUT IS SUICIDE..

CAN YOU NAME A FEW DUTY OF WIFE ?

HUSBANDS DUTY.. ACT LIKE A SERVANT AND PROVIDE FOR WIFE OR GO TO JAIL.

WIFE DUTY ?? name a few please..

malipeddi jaggarao (Expert) 08 September 2014
You should come out of your agitative mood first. Mr.Shroff has advised you in your interest. We have clarified the legal position. It is for you to decide what is to be done.

Guest (Querist) 08 September 2014
Yes thank you for reminding me and every husband of india that his legal place is "SERVANT OF HIS WIFE.. AND HE HAS TO PROVIDE FOR HER "

I rather kill her and then kill my self.

But why are you people not answer the real question ?

Q.IF husbands duty is to provide and if he dose not do it.. he is jailed..

WHAT is the duty of wife ? Or The Great INDIAN law "forgot" to assign duty to wife and only husband have duty and responsibilities and wife has only enjoyment ?

What did you 'intelligent' law makers.. thought is the duty of wife? what is it ? name the duty of wife.. ?

Or the entire constitution of India is screwed? No equality ?

AND THE MORE IMPORTANT QUESTION.

Q. Why do you have to pay alimony to a person who abused you ? and who was cruel to you ? thats not justice..

I have video and audio recordings of her cruelty and i can show it to court..many times she is saying cause she is a women men have to serve her according to Indian law. ! and whole purpose of Indian law is to serve and dance on fingers women..She gives me example of rape and dv laws. This is in audio and video recording.. at many times..in many videos.

Not only this i have many other proofs also of her cruelty.. clear proofs..

but whats the point of proving cruelty if.. i still will have to pay her huge alimony ?

Q.Can atlest the judge has the power to help me ? or even he has to act according to the rules set by biased Indian acts ? or can he use some powers and make a decision and do justice on the given facts and case? and go against the unfair and old Indian acts ?

Can.. you answer these 2 questions ? and tell me where do you fine justice and equality in it ?

Devajyoti Barman (Expert) 08 September 2014
Author is more interested to vent his ire/frustrations here than taking the replies in right perspective and strive for amicable resolution of dispute.

Guest (Querist) 09 September 2014
There will be no resolution. i will go and fight in court.. if matter is against me.. i will kill her and kill my self.

and about your law..

YOU JUST CANT ADMIT.. that you screwed up badly and your law is written by idiots..

if you dint screw up.. then tell me.. by law what is the duty of wife.

by law husband has to provide..

but by law.. what is the duty of wife ? can you name even one ?

and can you tell me.. whats the difference between proving cruelty and not proving cruelty and maintenance.. if in both case i alone loose my money.. then whats the point of proving cruelty or no cruelty ?

and again.. i ask you intelligent law makes..

what is the duty of wife ? or you forgot to assign a duty to wife and only husband has duty by law ?

Cant believe the country law makers are idiots..and you wonder why India has brain drain.

and also.. mr barman.. please increase your iq level.

The solution to the problem cannot be.

1.BOW DOWN and lick your wifes feet and do everything she says.

2. OR pay huge alimony in divorce.

Thats not a solution you idiot. Ill RATHER KILL HER AND KILL MY SELF

V R SHROFF (Expert) 09 September 2014
There shall be no issue, no dispute, the moment you produce ""ISSUES "

WIFE'S MAIN DUTY IS TO PRODUCE YOUR CHILD,

LATER, EVEN IN ANCIENT TIME: WIFE IS TOO BUSY, LOOKING AFTER/ CARING GROWING CHILDRENS;
sHE , WHEN PREGNANT, CAN'T MOVE, AND ANCIENT MAN HAD TO FO HUNTING TO BRING FOOD/ SHELTER
wIFE BUSY C CHILDREN
AND show goes on.

You failed to get child is a major root cause with you.

Once she is mother, she will not trouble you, She will pray you, as she need your help to feed her child !!
Be practical, brave,
not coward to say "KILL & BE KILLED""

THATS ALL
GOOD BYE@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@

Devajyoti Barman (Expert) 09 September 2014
The author has gone out of mid. Better avoid replying this query anymore.

Guest (Querist) 09 September 2014
@ V R SHROFF

Sir.. if thats the case then

1. why throw husband in jail if he dose not do his duty and provide ?

2.and no punishment for wife if she dose not want to have sex.. no punishment for her if she dose not want children. No enforcement by law on her ?

and also.. husband also dose not have a right to force the wife into sex..

if he dose he will go to jail..

so thats not a right if it cannot be enforced.

and thats not a duty if its not enforced by law and there is no punishment for not doing it.

only enforcement by law on husband ? only punishment on husband by law ?

thats again gender bias. (no equality)

And also.. if wife dose not want children or dose not want to have sex with husband.. then its amounts to crulty and its ground for divorce.. but how dose that makes a diffrence.. cause in that case also the men will end up paying huge alimony.. so.. she again makes a lot of money from marriage and the guy is again the looser even if its wifes fault and even if she is abusive or cruel .. the husband will end up paying wife huge alimony.

thats again injustice.

and also.. it take two to make a baby.. so its also husbands duty to reproduce.. without him it cannot happen and also he will also need wife once the child is born.. so child in this case is gender neutral..and so is sex.. as its also duty of husband to have sex with wife and produce children or it will again amnout to cruelty and your wife can divorce ..and in this case also the guy loose a high amount of alimony.

INDIA NEEDS BETTER LAWS. BETTER LAW MAKERS.

But till then.. there is a solution.. which our indias do in very good way..

its called dowry.. if the amount of dowry is very high (which it is now ) then it can bring equality and some justice to men.

If a man dose not take huge dowry then he will only loose money as he will have to pay huge alimony... dose not matter if wife is at fault..or the man is at fault..the amount of alimony has to be paid by the man to the women.. in any case..

so If he takes dowry.. then its somewhat balanced.

Dowry = Paid by girl to man for marrying.(enter)

Alimony = Paid by boy to girl for divorcing.(exit)

Its 2 sides of the same coin.

If one is illegal.. then other should also be..

But then indian law comes in between and show it self stupid when it says dowry is illegal and girl has right to get back "Stridhan" in case of divorce.

again making it unfair/unjust to men..

Biswanath Roy (Expert) 09 September 2014
The querist has some substantial grievances relating to inequality in Indian Laws which is not conforming with our Constitution.Law cannot be one way traffic. But the grievances under the subject query can be remedied by our legislative functionaries only till then we are helpless. When the LAW OF DIVORCE was introduced and came into force pecuniary position of wives in Hindu families were different than that of this present modern society.

Guest (Querist) 09 September 2014
@ roy sir.

Yes true.. the laws were made in time when women cant earn.. so alimony was justified.

But now times have changed.. and so there is a need for laws to change..

We need better - more gender neutral - and just laws.

we dont want these old divorce laws.

New women - new men - new attitude - new problems - new laws.

Try making all and every law gender - neutral .. thats the only way to progress..

Ill tell you my concept which is also proved by many psychologist.

You are trying to protect women..by these biased laws.. but are actually causing women more harm and putting them in more danger.

In india marriage rate is not recorded but one can easily say marriage rates are declining. This decline is due to these biased laws.. as you cannot force men to marry you are endangering the country.

However india dose record bith rates and its the witness that fertility rates are declining in the country and so are birth rates..(proving marriage rates are declining )

Vladimir linen said once..

You destroy the marriage - You destroy the country.

Ill tell how that works.. you think men not wanting to marry cause of these laws wont cause a problem ?

I want you to think and really answer few questions.

Take a 1000 unmarried men and a 1000 married men.. you answer the questions.

1.Which of them are actually more likely when compared to other have chances of raping women ?

a married man with family and responsibility or a single man.. who is more likely to rape ?

2.Next question.. which man is more likely go to prostitutes.. a married man with family and responsibility or a single man..?

In both the cases the logical answer will be single men rape 10 times more than married men and single men go to prostitutes 10 times more..

However as the rate of single men rises the rape rate rises..

and as prostitution is illegal in the country.. there will be more and more girl kidnapped and forced into prostitution. As the single men rises.. the demand for prostitutes rise.

Now these are direct effects seen in many countries like USA where even tough the laws are gender neutral and fair.. still cause of discrimination against men by family courts.. now the marriage rate stands on 47% means more than half of population is unmarried and not willing to marry.However cause women also risk to loose alimony and property..they also dont want to marry there.

however guess what is also high in America aside from divorce rate.. (52%)

yes.. its the rape rate.. and prostitution rates..

did you know that that most developed countries are in "top 10 most crimes against women" along with india which is not developed.

Google it if you want to..

and all these country including India.. has a huge women empowerment and discrimination against men. however In developed counties discrimination dose not exist as of today as that violates human rights.. but if you read history..then a long time before they did had a lot of discrimination against men which resulted in dropping of marriage rates.

In many of these developed countries prostitution rates increased so much that they were forced to make it legal to control it.

All cause men decided not to marry

all cause you decided to discriminate against men.

Now coming back to topic of india.. which is a very colorful country..

there is a problem in india known as dowry death.

You know what is it ? i bet you do.. its a man killing a women ..for her to bring in money into marriage.. i wonder what these men will do if women is to exit marriage where there property is on risk or there money is on risk.. what will they do, if they can kill her, if she dint bring money.. cant they kill her if they have to pay her money on divorce?

and guess what else india suffers cause you decided to discriminate against men and say " its a mans duty to provide "

yep the answer is "Female infanticide"

Yes any one can logically think if people are killing women baby cause they dont want a burden for 18 years.

what will they do if men stopped marrying ?

now the burden will continue for even long as it will take a lot more to marry and find a man who wants to marry.

i guess they will just kill the baby.

but moreover.. why is girl taken as burden ?

well its cause you decide to discriminate against men saying they are the providers.

so a male child will benefit the parent and what about female child..!

lets talk about the amount of dowry.. why do they pay it ? why dose it exist.. ?

well its cause you said its a mans duty to provide and you forgot to give wife a duty..

so if a women is burden on there husband .. why wont they take money from her..specially when they risk to loose a lot of money on divorce (regardless of whose fault is in divorce )

and guess what will happen if you increase amount of alimony or make a law which risk there property..

well the answer is.. the amounts of dowry will go sky high..

there will be more and more girls who cannot afford marriage and a happy life.

and my friend this is just a tip of the iceberg..

Stop trying to make divorce bad for men..Make all laws gender natural.. or india will repeat the same mistakes which those developed countries did in past..

china in 2011 rolled back its divorce laws and said on divorce no property will be divided.. the reason they gave was..

" men stopped marrying ..and stopped buying houses"

they are clever.. but is india ?

the world marriage rates decline to record low..The divorce laws were made bad for people.. the crimes against women rise to highest.. its connected to each other..the early you see it.. the better it for india.

only way to make more men marry.. is stop making family law discriminatory against men and make divorce laws fair for men.

However in India..even tough marriage rate slowly declines today the marriage rates are still very high compared to western countries..but you pass a few more biased family laws.or dont change current biased laws against men..and you will see marriage rates declining even faster .. and the crimes against women..well.. it will go sky high.

And yes.. men dose suffer a lot from these biased family laws.. but women will also suffer together as more and more men turn away from marriage.

See your time.. it was different.. women were submissive .. they were good..and they could not earn so in that time it wont be a problem to pay alimony.

But today women have changed.. they are fighting there men.. they are shouting and abusing them.they are getting there man arrested...and also they are earning so to us.. paying alimony to them dose not make sense..

and as it dose not make sense.. we will keep turning away from marriage as it will become a financial risk to us..unless your change the laws.

However you can google any of this facts.

Raj Kumar Makkad (Expert) 09 September 2014
If you feel teased, harassed and humiliated in the hands of your wife, better to fie a divorce petition.

Raj Kumar Makkad (Expert) 09 September 2014
The experts here are not defending your wife rather those are telling you the hard facts and legal position which should not be misunderstood by you. I can imagine your mental set up in the given circumstances under which you are forced to live in. Think in cool mind and find its permanent solution.

Guest (Querist) 09 September 2014
@ raj kumar sir..

Yes.. thank you for your help..

I understand that law is not of any use to men..its just there to protect women..

ill kick her out and give her last warning and file for divorce if she dose not listen.

its ok if i loose alimony..

lets see what Indian justice system dose to protect innocents !

ok one last thing.. can atlest the judge say.. ok the wife was very cruel..lets not grant her alimony or grant her less alimony cause she was cruel ? ( i have video proofs )

dose the judge have that power ? or he has to act according to the acts of india ?

dose he have any power of discretion ?

and is there a chance for justice for me in India in this case ?where judges punish people just cause they are born men.. or is it sure i will have to pay huge alimony ? ( i should have taken dowry .. sadly i dint took any dowry)

and dose the fact that marriage lasted only 1 year and no children involved effect the amount of alimony ? she is also young and has a masters degree

and dose her cruelty has any effect on the amount of alimony ? or will the amount be maximum in any circumstances ?

malipeddi jaggarao (Expert) 10 September 2014
I feel, we have sufficiently advised, counselled. Better we stop our participation now.

Raj Kumar Makkad (Expert) 10 September 2014
If your wife is found cruel towards you then definitely it shall become a good ground to grant you divorce and she shall also be at the verge of loosing the amount of alimony. Law in India is not discriminatory towards man. If husband is found innocent and wife is found cruel then appropriate prayer is accepted on the part of the husband. There are plenty of such judgments.

V R SHROFF (Expert) 10 September 2014
Dear Chandu,

WE ADVOCATE CANNOT CHANGE LAWS
ONLY PARLIAMENT ELECTED BY YOU/ ALL OF US/ CAN ENACT LAWS , RULES.

WE LAWYERS ONLY INTERPRET, AND HELP COURT TO ADMINISTER JUSTICE .

Laws are good or bad, we cannot amend or change it. we insist to enforce it..

these are your laws// Indian people enacted it.. Only Parliament can change it passing in both the houses.

SO TILL THEN RELAX.. BE COOL.
LIVE SEPARETELY, AND JUST EAT DRINK AND BE MERRY..
WHY THINK TOO MUCH..
GO FOR MEDITATION IN DHANA
READ GITA
COOL DOWN, BE CALM

DO NOT LET OTHERS TO HANDLE THE REMOTE CONTROL OF YOUR HAPPINESS.
KEEP IT WITH YOU.
WHY GET UPSET BY OTHERS??

OK

Go at distant place & reside where she cannot contact you.
Eithe become father// or go away from her

FINAL Rx.

Either too tooooo close to penetrate & enter be one

or too toooo away...not to see faces..
JUST ACT, DO NOT THINK FURTHER..
I KNOW YOUR SUFFERING & FEELINGS SO GUIDING YOU CONFIDENTIAL MATTER TO SOLVE YOUR PROBLEM
ACT AND SEE RESULT WITHIN 90 DAYS AND COME BACK TO REPORT RESULT.. EVERYTHING WILL BE OK IF YOU DO SO..
OK

Guest (Querist) 10 September 2014
@ V R SHROFF sir.

@ raj kumar makkad sir.

@ Biswanath Roy Sir.

Yes , ok.. ill do my best.

And yes thanks a lot for help from bottom of my heart.

T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate (Expert) 11 September 2014
Firstly instead of repeatedly agitating over the issues, sit calm, introspect the event that led her to adamantly maintain her refusal to take part in the household activities of her matrimonial home. If you find the finger pointing it to you, if they are genuine, repair them or if they are totally unjustified and intentional with some ulterior motive, find it out, inform her parents the same, if they don't listen, just leave her company (ofcourse temporarily), stay away from her, watch her next moves (while getting prepared for the worst developments), react legally. I agree that this situation is not an isolated incident, these things occur very commonly with the newly married females who are all well educated and unwilling to be employed but to live a life of ease under very bad misguidance from external people (from like minded friends or over affectionate parent or siblings). the law is not biased but intends to protect the innocent female victims, however some rogues misuse them to wreak vengeance against their innocent husband and his close relatives.

Raj Kumar Makkad (Expert) 11 September 2014
You are most welcome chandu.

Rupam Ghosh (Expert) 22 September 2014
Mr Chandu

I am surprised to find so much grievance of yours against your own wife? The entire dialogues reveal jealousy towards women in the guise of your wife. It would be correct to find out the nature of your job, your availability for the housechores and how much do you really help in housechores to get the kingsize life. All the factors which may define a good marital life is missing from you both of your' life and hence duties, responsiblities and benefit is not following in your case. Both of you a perfect mismatch for each other. How dare you threatening this platform of killing your wife and yourself too. So you have committed so many offence against your wife by projecting this threat out and law has not yet taken cognizance of it. This is nicety of law and the platform here against indian men that they are sensible towards your situations. Technically you have committed many offence against your wife by these texts, why the law should not treat you harsh? There is no proven fact here which clears you as a hard working husband. Dont give her money. Give her your true dedicated love and affection rest everything shall follow for you. Guaranteed.

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