Wish mutual divorce
shardul
(Querist) 21 September 2012
This query is : Resolved
I was married in arranged Hindu marriage. But now I have completed 2.5 years to my marriage including 1.6 yrs of separation . Having mother father and 1 younger brother in my family. Working in MNC as Chemical lead at Mumbai.
She is very arrogant and fall mouth in nature. That why, there was not mutual bond established in between us in 12 monthsof marriage. She left me before 1.6 yrs with her brother & mother. I doesn’t respond her and she not to me. No calls. So she files a complaint in “Social Consular located at Mumabi. And called me at their. Lots of meetings & arguments happened during last three months.
My allegation of non cooperation (sexual/ behavioral) , mouth foulness, threat to suicide was refused by her. Her brother runs on me during conversation in front of consular. “Social consular realized that, this is different case. Where girl and her parents dominated husband. So they suggested for MCD.
Me & girl also wish MCD.She even admit in meeting. I hv recorded the same. But her brother/mother is not agreed for any divorce. My Wife is M.Sc Chemical & currently doing job on 12ooo/- pm.
During Consuling I've I told in front of her father and brother that I'm ready to take you back but on my conditions. But she refused to come on my conditions. Condition are you have to live as per our family norms. After that her brother threats me that I will file a police complain against you that you have physical and mentally tortured to my sister.
Consular asked her parents if girl is not willing to go why you forced her for same. The case will come to us or court. Better separate out. It not easy… but this Public Social will not forced her or him to compromise if there are no hopes?
I have proof of threatening calls by them where her brother told us that take my sister else I will take any step which will be bad for you.
Right now no police of court cases till this post. In this 2.5 yrs. I’m getting overaged (32yrs). She is just 26 yrs old . Can sutain 3 more yrs. But for me it will difficult to remarry after 3 more yrs. I got fed up by this wait & watch.
But my Lawyer still suggested that wait & watch do not file divorce not to contact them. Time is the only solution. Why to pull counter cases ?
I hope my wife still wish divorce. Can I contact my wife alone & asked her to file MCD without her parents known ?
As her parents never agree for Divorce...
Please also let me know the documents required for MCD.
What to do in this situation?
ajay sethi
(Expert) 21 September 2012
for divorce by mutual consent your wife consent is a must . if her family is not agreeable to divorce you cant force her .
if divorce is a contested affiar it will take years at least in mumbai . since you hvae already engaged a lawyer go by his advise .
