Dear Respected All Concerned,
As I am married in 1995 with a non-veg. girl (i am a vegetarian) it was very very difficult to spent a long 18+ years with her.
Opinion: If you have faced a long 18+ years of turmoil and harassment.....then why you have not come ahead and rise your voice against her. Why you have not appeared before family court???
I have a daughter, she is studying in P.U. day-by-day she is harrasing me for very very small reasons.
Opinion: Read the above point-1
Do you have any evidences or proof against those harassments???
If yes then they are the Ramban for you to get relief indeed after 18+ years.
Also they (wife & daughter) by force sent me out of my house permanently.
Opinion: What kind of man you are....... you have evacuated from your own house.....shame on your manhood.
So,once thrashed from your own house by your wife and daughter what action you have taken so far???
She has given a false complaint on me against dowry/torture/others case in police station.
Opinion: The false complaints and cases and you bow down on these threats...Man ..Iam cursing myself that to whom Iam giving suggestion. A man who is so much weaker that he had consumed all the suffering and bad ailments without any cause.
PLZ come out with your MAZBURI..?????? which had made you to do so?
One S.I. involved and studied our case and made a compromise just a three months back. After coming home - after 2-3 days gap she started her old history. Due to this I tried to consume poison twice.
Opinion: Iam sure you are suffering from the negative phase of life where you yourself made as weaker section much weaker than the actual women victims of cruelity against by their husbands.
What a great achievement you have done after consuming poison twice...Hat's off to you.
How many bottles of poison you have ketp at home...? if still hiding such bottles to consume as a part time hobby then for god sake and for your good sake remove all such thoughts and throw all the poisons from your heart and mind and so on from your home.
It is difficult to write/tell my story over here. My question is:-
01. Now I am staying alone seperately.
02. I am working in Small Scale Industry and drawing very less salary.
03. Now, she is forcing me to pay Monthly Rs. 15,000/- (deposit in bank either wife/daughter's account every month 10th).
04. If, i failed to deposit the same - she is going to give a false complaint against me stating that I myself seperated from her and planning to re-marriage soon.
My humble request any kind hearted person - to help and how to solve this problem ??
with warm regards,
mukunda
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Dear querist,
You have been targeted since starting as an object and nothing more than that even it could be added by a laymen who will read your story. But all the causes been done only because of you,you have not revolted for the odds which you were facing during the intial stage of your marriage. This has made your wife to get guts to depress her own husband by overulling on him.
Anyways I don't want to give lecture here.........
You just do the following to eradicate the situation and come as a winner indeed rather than a looser:
1. Go to the police station file criminal complaint on your wife stating all the 18+ years of tragedy.
2. Book her for extortion and threatning cases U/s 383/384 IPC
3. Book her for U/s 336 IPC for Act endangering life or personal safety of others
4. Book her for wrongful restraining you not to enter your own home U/s339/341 IPC
5. Book her U/s 351/355/358 for assualt and criminal force and grave provocations.
5. Book her for U/s 499/500 for defamation and it's punishment.
6. Take a roller coaster ride within your own heart and be man .
7. Lastly, Don't cry for such things which you can't fight to get it.......If you can fight for your belief that you too are human and you need life then go ahead and thrash her ill intentions.
8. We all are here to support you...............if nobody then at least Iam.
regards,