VK0495 19 December 2016
whatnot 19 December 2016
Dear Querist,
You seems to be looking for a solution where none exists.
You wish to go against your father-in-law so that your wife can come back to you.
In your previous statement you said you have a six months baby while you were married for 14 months. Was the baby pre mature or was it out of wedlock?
If FIL has degraged your family or you and has caused a financial loss then you can pursue a case against him and you may have to spend considerable time and efoort to bring him to justice.
If he has conned government or navy and you to blow whistle on him. Take help of TV channel and go with proff. You might get help. But don't do it out of spite.
Now, coming to separation, they have left you less than six months. Make sure you provide them with transfer and salary. If you really want to stand up, take courage and go to their home. Stand in front of gate until Navy decides what to do with you. Let police come charge you. Create a scene and be firm to say all you want is your family. See how the drama folds out.
Influence can work only to an extent. And in the face of courage, it bogs down.
Wait for an year to go through a legal procedure
VK0495 19 December 2016
I have been married in Jun15 and me and my family come to know about her pregnancy in Aug 15 when we ask doc about it they were say it is due to LMP date even when my in-Law come to know about this they were tried to abourtion by taking her to their home as his father was working in Medical dept at that time in Defence hospital and when we bring her back to our home and went for check up their in hospital we found baby was not taken care and there might be chances delv in 7 month and due to which they furnished prescripttion for weekly injection with the help of which we covered EDD. It is not WEDLOCK.
Even after delivey when she was tkn home at defence coater there due to health issue she was hospitalize and get operated in defence hospital which was not non by me in absence of me. When we come to know I went with my family to hospital. there when I ask for file paper for just seeing they denied me for same. even after discharge when I ask my FIL for those paper he didn't shown me which with the help of RTI for that I got it now.
whatnot 19 December 2016
You ain't strong enough mentally to face off .
Let the time take its course.
Don't do anything that you might regret later.
Let them go to court and fight off from there.