One of my wife's college friend asked for money while buying his house. we helped him with 1.7lacs rupees (online transfer). he promised to return it withing week or so verbally. but then he started saying that he could not get loan approved etc. after a month, he gave a cheque of rs 50k from his parent's account which was cashed by us. after a lot of folow ups, he gave a cheque of balance 1.2lacs and asked us to deposit it after 30th january. we deposited it on 31st january. however the cheque was dishonored by bank as the payer has stopped the cheque payment. then he agreed to transfer the money online and even transferred 500. since then, he is not responding to our mails, his phone os off and there is no way to reach him. now the things that we have on sms:
1. sms from him that he is aranging the money and will transfer as soon as possible.
2. his friend from whom he was expecting money is not responding and that is why he is unable to pay back.
3. his confirmation to deposit cheque after 30th january.
4. his loan not getting approved.
5. we asked him to pay money in parts so that he doesnt feel burden of paying the whole amount at once.
we also have dishonored cheque with us along with memo from bank for the reason the cheque was dishonored.
what are the ways to get the money back legally or through pursuading him? his office is in the same campus as wife's. we roughly know the place where he bought the flat as he discussed about the money he spent in renovation etc. i was planning to meet him 1st at his office if possible. if he try to avoid meeting us there, then what? search for his home or ask police or lawyer to help us?
Please advice as we are in urgent need of the money.