The big mistake in this brief is "agreeing for divorce" when 498a IPC running !
I think this divorce might have been a Mutual Consent one if yes then one should have gone for quash before second motion on Divorce then this almost 9 years old delay and latches would not have worries you till date.
Also talk to PP and take him into confidence and go for quashing before HC showing the reason of complainant lack of interest and developments such as divorce and re-marriage of her etc. I think these grounds itself shows that there will not be any fruitful purpose going to get solved if the 498a IPC continues any further against you and your family.
Refer to these:
1.
THE SUPREME COURT OF INDIA
CASE NO.: Appeal (crl.) 1716 of 2007
PETITIONER: ONKAR NATH MISHRA & ORS.
RESPONDENT: STATE (NCT OF DELHI) & ANR.
DATE OF JUDGMENT: 14/12/2007
BENCH: ASHOK BHAN & D.K. JAIN
J U D G M E N T
[Arising out of S.L.P. (Criminal) No. 2516 of 2007)
D.K. JAIN, J.:
2. Supreme Court has in "STATE OF HARYANA V. BHAJAN LAL reported in 1992 Supp. (1) SCC 335" formulated certain guidelines for quashing by high Court under sec 182. One guideline, No.7, says the case is fit for quashing:
"(7) Where a criminal proceeding is manifestly attended with mala fide and/or where the proceeding is maliciously instituted with an ulterior motive for wreaking vengeance on the accused and with a view to spite him due to private and personal grudge."
I think hiring a decent HC lawyer will help get a quash. Don't let the case linger on you, your family head any longer when she is alrready re-married now. By going to HC, one way or the other the case will be resolved. If there is no quash, at least a speedy trial in the lower court may be obtained by taking HC's direction. Undoubtedly your side will successfully defend should there be a trial.After that your side can think of filing counter case for perjury, defamation etc.
Seek from LCI database other ld. members advise too on quash (grounds suggested abv) .
ATB, Rgds.