Whatsapp,fb private sharing of the cheating of a girl

let him do what he wants and learnfor himself.

You hAve described your friend that

in his extreme hurt he scolds with bad words & slaps her twice at her work place with 10 people or so around , total duration of 2-3 minutes incident ,  some 3 weeks back in mid nov 2013  ...  ..... .

how do you hope such person to learn without losing

If a man can have s*xual relationship with any woman before marriage and then shed them away, what is wrong in the same female have such relationship with more than one man, does he have any right to control her behavior.  If this is what is the culture the present generation is choosing , it is their problem to face the consequences in the later stage because knowing very well about the consequences, they intentionally indulged in such undesirable activities.  It would be better for your friend to discard her relationship and also totally avoid thinking about her and her other activities than in the name of doing some favor to somebody, he will land up in trouble.

ohk ..... thank u sirs & mam for ur time & advice

so, not only public posts,, private messaging in fb is also crime is what i understand , correct ?

And sir/mam  if u can pls mention the specific cases  IPC xyz etc.,  that can be used against him by her  .... and the years of imprisonment ....... i can quote him that , so that he wil understand the full gravity of his thoughts ,,,,, which may make him realise & drop it

awaiting help

@ kalaiselvan sir ....... i understand what u said sir ,,,, but here in AndhraPradesh sir this trend of free/casual s*x  or  living relationships is not there much yet ....... so usually we ( boys or girls )  feel lot of hurt & torment when our lovers cheat even in soul ( let alone in body )

Apoor, your friend should have have had enough of her (mental worries and abuses), but he should not think to avenge her because he too was a party in her earlier performances and since she is not caring about him, he thinks that she has to be avenged (?), well if she gives a counter i.e., filing false complaint against him for the offences of cheating and raping, false promises of marrying her and now denying it, he will be punished u/s 420and few other sections (based on the nature of her complaint), for which the punishment will be imprisonment upto 7 years or even more, so advise him to not to indulge into such unwanted things and get himself into trouble.

you said

"And sir/mam  if u can pls mention the specific cases  IPC xyz etc.,  that can be used against him by her  .... and the years of imprisonment ....... i can quote him that , so that he wil understand the full gravity of his thoughts ,,,,, which may make him realise & drop it"

why do you  think that he will mend his way by learning knowledge that your (not he) derives from free legal advise.  Take him to some lawyer's office.  An estalished not a strugler (who will not lose prospective client) make him to pay his fee and let him then listen to what he says.

hmmm ..... right , thank u very much

If the same thing was done by a man, and he cheated on his girl friend, refused to marry her and then the girl threatens him for false rape cases. Then all these lawyers who are advising you now would have taken a different stand and shouted at you for looting her dignity. That's the way it is hypocrisy at its peaks man....understand it and move on. Rape law is a gender biased law, nothing much you can do. 

I dont want to misguide you but the best thing is to move on...once you understand that shez not right for you, you will be very happy to let her go. Love is a very materialistic thing, it only listens to the maintenance that you pay.

Ardamayindaa inka kulayi katteyi :-)

hmm , thanks

I will have to agree to Stalker.

His views are close to reality.