Wife ask written agreement for her security

If you want to take her on agreement then you are foolish one. You are doing a big mistake. Marriage are based on trust not agreement if she has no trust on you then no need to take her back. Think if you signed agreement and in future because of small fight she make such situation again then she and her parents will use this agreement against you .People in India always want son really your parents are very luck one whose son wants to leave them because of her wife. Great! Better ask her if she wants to come without such agreement then welcome otherwise live in her parents home. Find someone else. You are wasting your time for such wife who dnt love you.

It is natural for a person to go back to their own roots even if it is detrimental in the future life.

There is not much can be done if parents invovles in family matters.

 

Same is true in your case and there is no point in arguing , unless you have some people who can influence her parents. All other actions are futile at this moment.

 

If you're in touch with your wife on one to one basis and you have means to provide good life for your family then move to another city. Start marriage life. If it is not in horizon, then take a divorce. Any written agreement is proof of your previous behaviour and same will be produced in court of law.

 

Once divorced, be a gentleman and be around. She may come back to you. Live a married lfie with same person but without marriage.  There are enough cases of same.

 

Or wait till one of your in-laws passes away.

 

Originally posted by : VINEETH
	i have to give her parents a written agreement for her security and not to have any mental or physical torture, or otherwise divorce. I

 

Ask her parents to hire the house of BIG BOSS so they can watch each and every activity of yours.

Instead of one-sided written agreement make it an M.O.U. so both side's points of confrontation can be covered in it.

 

You love her.  You want to keep the family life in tact.  She is under misapprehension that she would be physically and/or mentally harassed for her premarital affair or post marriage attitude towards you or your parents.  To keep the family life in tact, you can get an agreement drafted beautifully by expert advocate so that you will not face any future complications and at the same time allay the fears gripped your wife.   For example, if it is clearly written "the husband has never physically abused or mentally harassed the wife for any  reason whatsoever and treated her affectionately and never intends to harm her physically or harass her mentally.  In the interest of keeping the matrimonial life peacefully and harmoniously, and to ally the unfounded fears engulfed the wife, the husband doesn't hesitate to assure  the wife from physical abuse or mental harassment."  That will clearly obviate any difficulties, if arise any in future.

Thanks all for your feedback... Seriously i am thinking of a divorce