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priya (student)     24 July 2011

Another home destroyed by outside affair !

 

Husband's affairs with bar girls drives Mumbai woman to suicide

Mumbai:  Mamta Jha (36) was aware of her husband's 'innumerable' extra-marital affairs and his habit of bringing his paramours home after work.

But yesterday morning she woke up to her nightmare she caught her man in a compromising position with another woman at their home.

Unable to cope with her husband's infidelity, Mamta, mother of a 15-year-old boy, jumped off the 19th floor of Crimson Tower in Lokhandwala, Kandivali (east).

According to the Samta Nagar police, Mamta was staying at the flat with her husband, son and in-laws. Mukesh, who works as a crooner at a nightclub, used to come home early in the morning every day and would often tag bar girls along.
 


On Monday, Mukesh came home with an unknown woman around 5 am. His wife was fast asleep during that time. 

When Mamata woke up, she was shocked to see her husband with an unknown woman in a compromising position. In a fit of rage Mamta pounced on the woman and dragged her out of their home. Then she started quarreling with her husband.

Pretending as if nothing had happened Mukesh went to sleep, but an enraged Mamta leapt to her death. 

"We received a call that a woman had jumped off a 23-storey building in Lokhandwala. We rushed to the spot around 6.45 am and took her to Bhagwati hospital, where she was declared dead on arrival," said Senior Police Inspector Anant Shankar Kenjale.

The investigating officer of the case, who did not wish to be identified, said, "Mukesh was in relationship with many bar girls. He used to bring them home early in the morning almost every day, when Mamta would be fast asleep. Due to this, Mamta and Mukesh used to fight every day. 

Mukesh would often tell her to leave his house and go away from his life but Mamta would suffer silently because of his son, as the split could affect the child's future. 

Mamta's parents live in Delhi and the family is not so well to do, which was also one of the reasons that stopped her from severing ties from her unfaithful husband," the officer added.

A suicide note has been found on Mamata in which she has said that she had got fed up with her husband's flings, but she maintained "no one is responsible for my death".

"Since she has not held anyone responsible for her death, we are neither able to register a case of abetment of suicide nor can we arrest anyone at this stage. We are now waiting for Mamta's brother to arrive and if he complains against Mukesh, then we will register a case against him," said Kenjale.

 

https://www.ndtv.com/article/cities/husbands-affairs-with-bar-girls-drives-mumbai-woman-to-suicide-115559

 

 



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Roshni B.. (For justice and dignity)     24 July 2011

Yes I read this many weeks back.

 

I don't know why we people sympathise so much with bar girls.

 

They may have their reasons of being a bar girl,which is understandable.But why do  get screwed with married men?

 

In that respect I see no harm if society looks down upon them,not because of their profession,but coz of their conduct.

 

They themselves do such things,then say later that men exploit them and treat them as s*x objects.

 

This is height of double standards!

 

No one can treat you in such a manner,unless you allow him.

 

I have also faced advances by married men,but I showed them my disinterest.

 

.So they could not dare to advance further.Rather they would go to other girls who welcome their advances.


(Guest)

Surely its sad story . Women should not be desparte to do this kind of act. My condolences with her

Women already be the symbol of compassionate and love . I get very much depressed to hear this without going through the contents posted here


(Guest)
Originally posted by :Roshni B..
"
Yes I read this many weeks back.

 I don't know why we people sympathise so much with bar girls.

They may have their reasons of being a bar girl,which is understandable.But why do  get screwed with married men?

They themselves do such things,then say later that men exploit them and treat them as s*x objects.

 This is height of double standards!

 No one can treat you in such a manner,unless you allow him.

I have also faced advances by married men,but I showed them my disinterest.

 So they could not dare to advance further.Rather they would go to other girls who welcome their advances.
"

Respected Mdam,

Some how I disgree with the fact that Mubai is the expensive city and bar dancers are the poor /lower claa persons and mainly rely on the income borne by club . Now with the restriction imposed by bar clubs they have little options to do other profession. That's why she engaged with man. The man living in flat must be having the property of crores of Rs and for pysiological needs they are compeled to do these kinds of acts

Kindly don't cite your example with these. As the psychology of differnt classes of persons are differnt. You may rich/ middle class persona nad have the wide range of opportunities

If one is living in these stratia they are compelled by circumstances to do this act which miidle class/rich persons clalled it immoral

Ravinder Kumar (Account Director)     24 July 2011

Agree completely on all points written by Roshni.. I also think that there sud be provision for punishment to womens who get involeved with married men. These  women are a disgrace to self and everybody...

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Roshni B.. (For justice and dignity)     24 July 2011

Since talks of extra marital affairs was going on quite a lot yesterday,I forgot for a minute(while writing my above post)that if the bar girl is being paid for a one-night stand,I won't blame her,as it won't count as an affair.Here the husband is wrong completely,who's paying her.

She may be earning money like this for her livelihood.

 

But yes,I do condemn a woman(whether bar girl or not) if she has affair with a married person(which is of course not for earnings).And I have no respect for them,besides no respect for the husband too.


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