Daughter in law wants to separate but son does not want to live apart with his parent?
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 13 November 2011
This query is : Resolved
Respected Sir,
We are joint Family with my Father, mother
Brother and his Infant daughter and his wife.
My brother's wife threatening my brother to commit sucide . we have also filed complaint with police on that. Now, She had taken also police mobile no. and thretening also us to call police if we will tell against her. She does not do any work at home. All the work of house is done by my mother. Her parent also supporting her.
She wants to live seperate but there is no neccesity as such and my brother is also denying that thing.
My Father and mother are senior citizens i.e. 70 & 63 respectively.
Although my mummy is diabetic patient but she is doing all works of home and she is doing nothing.
What are the remedies in law against such woman?
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 13 November 2011
I want to give you a suggestion out of your query. Do not start legal remedies otherwise it shall open pendora of legal matters against all of your family members including false dowry cases and so on. It is better to either make her understand or compromise with the situation and arrnage for a separate residence for the family of your brother as it is a common tradition in modern society and your family should become ready to recognise such tradition.
Rajeev Kumar
(Expert) 13 November 2011
Mr.Makkad is right and i will also suggest you to follow his advise
mahendrakumar
(Expert) 14 November 2011
very realistic advice Mr.Makkad
Guest
(Expert) 14 November 2011
Buy peace of mind for yourself and old parents by separting your brother instead of inviting unending and unbearable problems for the whole of your family, as pointed out by Shri Makkad. Time is a great healer. Her wife may perhaps some day understand the importance of joint family and may like to unite later.
Sailesh Kumar Shah
(Expert) 14 November 2011
you are suggested to do as advised by Mr. Makkad and Mr. Dhingra.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 14 November 2011
First of all, try to sort the matters amicabley, but don't take it lightly,
Be in touch with local SIFF chapter and be a member of www.498a.org
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harased.by.498a@gmail.com
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 14 November 2011
Does 498a will be amended to provide protection to innocent families against women who is pretending to become dowry victims inspite of that husband family does not demanded?
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 14 November 2011
To,
Makkad sir,
But, We have never demanded dowry and she is pretending and lying against police.
Guest
(Expert) 14 November 2011
Dear Anonymous,
About your supplementary query, even if Sec. 498a is amended, the implementation rests with the police. That all depends upon the rational conduct of investigation by the police of your area.
Guest
(Expert) 14 November 2011
Dear Anonymous,
About your 2nd supplementary query addressed to Shri Makkad, I can only say, if the wife of your brother can threaten to commit suicide, just think over, what she cannot be expected to do to serve her vested interests?
BETTER TRY TO UNDERSTAND THE WARNING SIGNAL IN TIME.
Arun Kumar Bhagat
(Expert) 20 November 2011
I agree with the reply of Mr. Dhingra given for supplementary query.
