Divorce
Manish
(Querist) 29 November 2015
This query is : Resolved
d mng to all experts Sir i was married on 2 dec 14 .and enaged on 4 may 14 .in between this engagement to marriage period i used to call to my faincee on a gap of 1 month to 2 month.Everytime she talked me like she avoiding memeans didnt take interest in my call.thats y i called her in a gap if 1 to 2 month.i thought tgere may b a family boundation over her to talk with me.she talked me only for 2-4 min when i called.now marriage days came near.just before 2minth she changed her number without informing me.nw 2 dec came.while doing stage prog she came down from stage leaving me on stage without telling anything to meat last her brothers tild us she felt stimach pain.and again she sat with me.sir we didnt understand anything.i mean we thought Everthing is in good faith.during 1st night we denied to hv intercourse with me.used very abusive language.i politely asked for reasons y she is doing such ilicit things to me .i controlledmyself .bt she didnt stop.EVn tIld m nt intersted in marraige and will give no child birth.it was really a shocking for me on the 1st night.i tried to unders5and her and politely asked fir the reasons bt she denied to say anything.keeo silent over reason why she doing these.bt once she told marriage is under pressure.in the next mng we informed her parents 4hry came an fetch her daughter same time.again they asked me to come ne she is okay.thry i again went to bring her.after voming at home she kept her mood as well as it wad on 1 ngt.she stayed with me only 3 times.total days 10.she left me finaly on 15 march 15.till then we tried much more to bring her back panchyat help was taken.but atlast thry denied to accept panchayat decision .panchayat here means local respec5ed people.panchyat told us they are nt accepting anything.they are wrong.during 3 times when sshe came at home she used abus8ve language denied to cook food ,iron and washing clithes for me.means she ebblven told on 1st night u r nt my husband.she abused my parents.nwwht they want she can come to me temporary means 2-3days bt wanna lI've finally with their parents. As we bith are working in govt banks as an officer.i told her to get ur transfer to live alife with me.bt she is making me fool.1 yr if marriage is gng to finish sir we tried a much more to resolve it bt situation is gng worst.she Totally defame socially.she fell down in my eyes now. Nw i dont want her back. At any cost.help me.i wanna fule divirce case directly.she totally doing a formaility with me.we hv intercouse d 2 times .aftr 15 march we didnt meet.as ee bity belong to haryana .i m posted in mumbai nw but she in haryana.bith are working in PSB banks.sir an i file divirce case.from mumbai.or which steps i hv to take.we hv nt demanded any miney in marriage..just rs and nariyal.she denied to go for honeymoon booked by me just after marraige.sir guide me accordingly.it is tough to write so long over phn.if u pr9vide me ur contact no then i can call u. Guide me accordingly wht will b rgt for me..nw i want finally sepration.they dont want to break repationship nor want to conect .if i can file divirce case what will b best ground for me. Thnx
P. Venu
(Expert) 30 November 2015
Please state the material facts.
alexander
(Expert) 30 November 2015
Narrative is one sided and highly blurred. Why should a person holding a good responsible position in a PSU bank behave in the manner as you have stated.Consult your local lawyer. No matter from where you file a divorce case ( Mumbai - in your case), She can approach the Court to have the case transferred to Court where she resides or works.
uttamtibrewal@yahoo.com
(Expert) 01 December 2015
dear Manish..........
In this situation you need to be very alert as every steps of yours shall be very important ... just filing divorce may let you as well your family into big trouble...
WHAT does her parents has to say , Did you had talk to her parents ...... try to find out does she have any relation with any other person....
do reply me so that best suggestion can be made in regards
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 04 December 2015
Too long a story and not a query, consult and engage a local lawyer for proper analyses of circumstance, forming his opinion, guide and advise you professionally (on payment of fees).
K.S.Srinivas
(Expert) 06 December 2015
Agreed with Sri Alexander.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 30 November 2015
