divorce
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Anonymous
(Querist) 31 December 2009
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Hi i was in love for 10 yrs and got married to same girl lived for 3 yrs and suddenly she left me one day saying i drink i lie i go around with girls etc.etc but whereas the only truth was i used to drink but within limit and she used accompanny me before and after marriage now its in the court and she has agreed to pay me 1 lakh for mutual consent.its almost 3yrs now since we have seperated and i live alone in a pg b'cos i had a site which i sold for our marriage. and i hvent taken a single paise from my inlaws.she works for a bpo and earns a good salary of 40 k per month .within these 3yrs i lost everything i had just b'cos of depression where as my wife is staying with a guy seperately whereas her parents stay here itself and in the court i could not prove anything as they were not listening to me but at counselling when i was adamant of getting her back not a divorce she offered me 1 lakh where as now i think thats too less where i have spent nearly 6 to 7 lakhs for just the wedding what should i do to retain her or how can i demand more as i too have life and too need money to lead the same please help me as the court date is on jan 12 2010.thanks
Arul Kumar
(Expert) 31 December 2009
Since the case in the Court, you have to prove the points in the court of law with the aid of your lawyer.
Kiran Kumar
(Expert) 31 December 2009
first time on this website i ve seen a case where the wife is willing to pay for divorce.
well, if u truly want her back, try to talk to her, mutual discussion is a key to every solution.
dont be depressed, if she does not want to stay with u, ask her clearly that u need more money as u r unable to maintain urself.
u may pursue litigation but that may not be good for quick and peaceful solution.
Srinath Kondapally
(Expert) 31 December 2009
when u have engaged an advocate to proceed with case then he will guide u, and if u are not interested on him u may change such advocate, and engage another advocate which he will guide u, if it is convenient and possible corrospond with
skondapally666@ggmail.com with case particulars
adv. rajeev ( rajoo )
(Expert) 31 December 2009
Mr. Anonymous,
One example I want to give you. My client faced the same situation what now you are facing.
He got married to his student he got job at bengaluru and she got in BPO. After getting the job she turned because she had a relation with one collegue. My client came and told the problems what he is facing because his wife. I suggested them to go for mutual divorce, according divorce petition filed while conciliation judge asked about the husband's work she said he is lecturer and I am working in BPO drawing 20K, judge asked another question is it love marriage or arranged, she answered love marriage, then judge said didnt you think about the future while making a love she said no. It means she has independent income. Now my client got married another girl and living happily .
In your case it is like same. My advise is dont waste your time go for mutual divorce and get marry another girl. Money can be earned.
niranjan
(Expert) 31 December 2009
Good advice by Mr. Rajeev.
