divorce for second wife
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Anonymous
(Querist) 08 July 2011
This query is : Resolved
I am a second wife of a person who was married before relationship. We are living together without marriage from past 11 years and we have a daughter of 9 years old. Till date their family didn't accepted me or my daughter. My hubby is very smart person he does lots of partiality to me and now days things are not good in home and as i am working, his behavior is making me sick and and i am not able to concentrate on my job. he not earning well and i am spending my salary on maintaining the house. before things get worse i want to be out of this relationship. as i am not married is divorce is required? or how i can take it forward so that rest of my life i live peacefully with my daughter.I always feel depressed and i am finding it difficult to live, i cannot cheat my daughter, only for her i am living. pls guide me.
adv. rajeev ( rajoo )
(Expert) 08 July 2011
First of all your marriage itself is void. You clarify this matter with your husband and get solved your problems. If he agrees then leave him and choose the way which you feels best.
sumant singh
(Expert) 08 July 2011
as you are not married divorce is not required, though you can claim maintenance for your girl child from her father.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 09 July 2011
Dear Mr.Rajeev sir, thanks for your reply, the thing is many times i have tried to explain him that the realtionship is not working, in spite of it he talks as if he is not going to leave me & i will never be able to leave him and live separately. Pls tel me how can i solve this issue, can i see lawyer and take their help to make him understand that i don't want to continue our relationship.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 09 July 2011
Dear Mr.Suman singh sir, thanks for your reply. Pls let me know how can i convince him that , i am no more interested in the relationship. can i see lawyer and take their help to make him understand that i don't want to continue our relationship.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 09 July 2011
Dear Mr.Suman singh sir, thanks for your reply. Pls let me know how can i convince him that , i am no more interested in the relationship. can i see lawyer and take their help to make him understand that i don't want to continue our relationship.
Sanjeev Dudhat
(Expert) 09 July 2011
your problem is not unique. I find that you have no support from your parents. separating from you partner [not hubby] is therefore problematic.Anyway if this is the problem of live in relationship developed well over the years the solution can be obtained by filing an application under domestic violence Act. Compel him to pay for the maintenance of the child and also the household. he is in fact creating an economic blockade for you to leave. you have a right under domestic violence act to demand him to pay for maintenance of the child and also share the household.Unless and until there is an economic pinch he will not settle the issues with you.Therefore consult an advocate to file such an application.This will enable to leave him with a golden handshake. Thereafter you will able to look after your daughter well.
