Property issue , divorce in progress
deepak
(Querist) 29 August 2013
This query is : Resolved
I have filed for divorce due to my wifes cheap character & her constant threatening to do suicide , creating havoc whenever caught telling lies esp when hiding something.
Anyways , I bought a flat last year & it was bought in joint name since the bank pressed that loan can availed only on join name however only i am paying the EMIs till now.
Now she we just sold gold , both mine & hers to get this flat. Her share is about rs 2 laks & mine is rs 7 laks in the initial purchase. She also knows that the whole digusting situation has come because of her cheap activities however she is ok since no hard eveidence.
But she also knows that i am difficult person to deal with when i am correct at my place. she knows i will not see even the kids face entire life if she goes ahead with more cheapness.
So i have email communications where she has agreed that i will give back her 2 laks & also the loss occured due to sellintg the gold & she will have no say in the flat. Also I will provide for the kid cause after all the kid is mine too.
But i think now she is worried abt 2 things, her family thinking that definetly she has done something since i have gone so much ahead in everything & they also know her cheap past which has been brought up in earlier fights however i compromised to forget it & lead a good life.
Second , it looks like she has plans that if do not back down which i wont she will harass me for divorce & also my flat in some way.
I got an answer in another post that I can file a separate case for the flat since i am the major contributor. Apart from initial 7 laks i have been paying EMIs since more than year which itself is more than 3 laks , i am also paying EMI for the personal loan i took for this flat , i am paying auto loan. I did everything a person can do to make his family happy however life has turned out this way to me.
Anyways i dont want to loose any property to such a person, please guide/advice.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 29 August 2013
Getting the flat in your absolute share is not that easy and going after it would be a futile exercise.
Rather concentrate in divorce case if you so want.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 29 August 2013
FIRST OBTAIN DIVORCE ++ CHILD ACCESS
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 29 August 2013
Easily getting flat by you is doubtful. Any amicable settlement can solve it in better way. If possible sale the flat, take your shares and proceed.
Obtain divorce and try to lead a peace full life.
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 29 August 2013
Go strategically.First decide terms about flat and get it relinquished from her by a registered deed then decide terms of divorce with her and try to get done mutually.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 29 August 2013
I have also the similar opinion as expressed above
