husbend pushing for divorce, not ready to come back
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Anonymous
(Querist) 21 April 2011
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i got married last dec 2009, 1st 2/3 months of was gud, but later mujhe dheere dheere mere husbend ke kafi jhut bate pata chali jo unhone mujhe boli thi, later he started avoiding me. he never use to share finance with me. unfortunately i was not working after marriage, last dec2010 i had to gor for a job. was completly dependent on him. before two month we had a big fight, i was frustrated with his behavior, i was about to go to my parents house but he stoped me at that night, but in d same morning he left the house saying he cant stay with me, he put alligations on me like i m a drunker, i hit him & all, later in d day he came back but his family told us to leave the house as the house was in his father name, we shifted arround a month & half back in a rented house, while shifting he was forcing me to mortagage all the jeweleries for diposite of the house, as he never had savings, but somehow i didnt, so he paid only 6 month rent here, but after shifting he became worst, he never use to talk to me, every weekend he use spend nightout only & its 3 weeks now he left the house saying he cant stay with me, he needs separation, i dont know wat to do, i dont want to get seperated, worst is his family is not supporting at all, saying jab humne apne ladke se rishta tod diya hai to bahu ke sath koi rista nahi hai, plzzz help.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 21 April 2011
& wen i m trying to contact directly or inderictly through he is threating me to be away...
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Anonymous
(Querist) 21 April 2011
but if i do anycase dat will again spoil the situation, he ll never come back. isnt it?
Dayananda Gowda
(Expert) 23 April 2011
Contact him and take a proper decision. It take time.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 23 April 2011
he is not ready for any communication.
