Marriage
nivas ramachandran
(Querist) 11 December 2014
This query is : Resolved
Sirs/Madam,
I’m a male from Coimbatore-tamilnadu, born on 15.05.1990, I am working in chennai... I know a girl from December 2012 at Coimbatore near my native village, she born on 12.08.1995….. Her mother occupied me and my thoughts and involved me in her daughter’s life so we started to love(her father opposes it from initial itself)…. On 01.06.2013 she wanted to write medical entrance so I helped they both to come to Chennai and stay for a day and to write and go back….during that one day her mother has compelled me to take a photo with her daughter just standing nearby….(no Hindu rituals, or anything)…. She presented 2 rings one for me and another for her daughter….(compulsion)…. All these happened on and before 02.06.2013…..
Note : She completes 18 years old on 12.08.2013
But on 02.09.2013 due to problems arisen, big fight has come between families and her father called police… police came and separated us, and orally advised not to meet or talk 3 witness are there…… After a day also that lady (mother) tried to talk to me and texted…. I sent a massage simply “don’t talk, SI and CID has advised already, I didn’t cheat any one.” I lost the ring somewhere, may be during the fight at their home itself…. She was asking for the money and the ring she gave to me… so my father sent my uncle to their home returned back her photo and everything….
I have given lot of books but she didn’t give back anything…. She told like I don’t have any photos like that……she is having following things :
The messages which I sent to her daughter (between December 2012 to 02.09.2013)…..My single photos... and a photo in which both are standing near by..
After 2013 Im not visiting my native also, now I have a plan to go there and settle….
Now I’m worried, In future she may claim to marry her… Please advise me on this….have to get unmarried certificate??..
Guest
(Expert) 11 December 2014
When No Marriage had taken place where is the Question of Unmarried Certificate.If you are Really Wise just move on as per your wish with out having further contacts with them.If at all any Disturbance from them approach the same Police with Legal Guidance From Good Advocates.
nivas ramachandran
(Querist) 11 December 2014
Sir, They can disturb me? by that one photo and messages i sent before the fight?? Is it legal? please give a simple explaination... It will help to be there without any doubt....
Guest
(Expert) 11 December 2014
Now that after Interference of Police you are not in Contact with them Either they are in Touch with you.So Just Forget it and Proceed in Life.If any Interference If at all by them take the help of Local Good Advocates.Just forget the Past and Proceed in Life.If you wish to marry Disclose the Facts to the bride's Side in advance to avoid complications If you Wish other wise even that is not required.
nivas ramachandran
(Querist) 11 December 2014
Sir,
Thank you very much for your valuable reply and advice... It is very helpful...Now im moving on well so only im afraid of...
you are asking me to take the help of advocate, so there is a space for them to approach court... (worried only about our family reputation sir)
ajay sethi
(Expert) 11 December 2014
no marriage has taken place you merely stood next to each other . the girl cannot claim any marriage has taken place . you are free to marry . you need not worry about family reputation since you have not done anything wrong
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 11 December 2014
Marriage has not taken place, You can marry. Any dispute / step from them may be dealt accordingly.
nivas ramachandran
(Querist) 11 December 2014
While taking the photo she was a minor not major.... she completed her 18 after 2 months of photo take..., 20 days after that the problem arised and seperated.... sir, what about the rings she gave?? we are hindu...
Guest
(Expert) 11 December 2014
Your Query is Very Hypothetical.Get it Confirmed with a Local Advocate.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 11 December 2014
DO NOT WORRY.
FORGET THE INCIDENCE
JUST RELAX.
NOTHING ILLEGAL
NO LIABILITY ON YOU.
U R SAFE.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 11 December 2014
Forget the event till any step taken by them. You have done nothing illegal.
