Need help
Vanashree
(Querist) 13 April 2012
This query is : Resolved
Hi i need somebody's help urgently........
1am basically hindu by birth and 1 year back i got married with 1 muslim guy(state gov. employee) who was already married and having two kids,he said he is not at all happy with his present wife and want to divorce her n get marry with me but i only stopped him and told him not to give divorce.But at the same time he was after me to getting marry with me.I said NO for the same but after few months even i started loving him very much , i got very emotional as every after second day he was after me for marriage,finally 8th Jan 2011 we got engaged in a small temple and 5th May we got married in a hotel room(we haven't done legal marriage, today i have only photos of our marriage, no legal document.)for few months after marriage everything was fine but since last August he is avoiding me, n whenever i ask him to get married legally he is always giving me reasons that he is already married and cant get married here for the second tie so we have to go out of India and he is after me for the same.(i can smell some fishy things here). I have made a unofficial police complain against him when cops asked him about marriage that time he got ready to get married on 5th May 2012, but again after that he is giving me the same reasons as him n my family is not aware about our marriage so he is telling me to go out of India from this place after few moths he will join me and than will get married,so i have applied for my visa but please tell me whatever i m doing i it right ? or again he is only playing with my emotions as he is doing the same from last 1 year......please suggest me something, what should i do now ?
adv. rajeev ( rajoo )
(Expert) 13 April 2012
First of all it is your mistake to marry a person who is already married. Since last one year he is promising you to marry you legally, but I am not sure he will marry you after going out of india. So think twice and take decision.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 13 April 2012
1am basically hindu by birth ::
BUT NOT BY HEART:
NOW BE BY HEART, MARRY HINDU BOY, GET THAT ::: LOST.
this is repeated query. now do not remember married muslim who is cheating you, enjoying free of cost, and will sell you in foreign country,
can sell your kidney also :
BE VERY CAREFUL, DO NOT HIDE SUCH SERIOUS MATTER FROM YOUR PARENTS, & FAMILY FRD.
Vanashree
(Querist) 13 April 2012
but he got married with me n using me as his wife since last 1 year, i take him as a husband.He spoke to my family (my mother) about our marriage plans also....i am feeling cheated now :(
Deepak Nair
(Expert) 13 April 2012
Answered in similar query posted by you.
You are wery well advised by Mr.Shroff.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 13 April 2012
Repeated query.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
H. S. Thukral
(Expert) 13 April 2012
Marriage is void for various reasons. So pl do understand that you are not a legally wedded wife so far. Your marriage has to be registered under special marriage act.
if you want to go further in this matter then better get the marriage registered.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 13 April 2012
repeated query which is already advised..
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 14 April 2012
आप को एक ही बात को बार बार पूछने की आदत है क्या ?
उसने आप को धोखा दिया .जिसको आप विवाह बता रही है वह कानून की निगाह में विवाह नहीं माना जायेगा .
सहायता मागने का जब सही वक्त था तब आप ने किसी की सहायता नहीं मांगी ,अब जब सब कुछ बिगड़ गया तब क्या सहायता की जा सकती है ?????आप ही सोंचें .
