My husband dont want to continue his relation with me.
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Anonymous
(Querist) 22 May 2011
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bcoz he is sayg i am not responsible and not loving his mom and sis loving properly.eventhough there is no issue between me and my husband,it is true but nobody will believe,.I dint even quarell even 1 time with my in laws also.Now my hubby is in abroad.not contactg me at all.I tried to contact but no response from him and his family.My parents also went to his house,for a talk,then his mother sayg,they dont want to talk anytg lets get divorce.Just one word they said.Now it is 6 months,no contact from him.I love him,but he??????He never tried to call me or mail in past 6 months.i tried to convince him thru mail,in all the possible.But he is maitaining a silence.i dont know his number nothg.We were stayg happily in bglre for past 1yr.He is blaming me that i am not loving his mother.In all the good manner am lovg her,mom in law is nt stayg with us.Daily i used to call his mom or she will call me.But one day i missed to call her,on that my hubby was in his home with mom.For that he scolded me like anytg.and next day his sis also scolded me like anytg.that i am givg tension to his mom and torchuring her bro's life.like many things.then i said it is our life we will decide.Next day onwards my hubby nt pickg my call,neither his mom and nobody in his family.and my hubby dint come bk to our home in bglre.From his mom's home he gone directly to Abroad.After that he just send one mail ,he is fine and gettg settled.Always am waitg for his call,but no response.What mistake i did?he is not even ready to talk with me and settle the things.He is so close to his mom and sis,daily he used to do video conference with them,but with me no contact at all..no mail,no calls,nothing.I am his wife...waitg for him.....if he dont want me ,then y can't he openely tell me .so that i can make up my mind,to face it...Now itself am completely shattered.With lots of expectation i got married.Now my parents are also forcing me to take a decision soon.because he wont come bk to india for nxt 3yrs.without any contact.how i will wait for a man like this?????Some one please reply..i am totally in a dilemma what to do.
So i am thinking to proceed legally.Intially i dont want to file a divorce case.If i file for divorce,he will come and sign it happily .If i give for divorce i wont be getting any alimony isn't??????
Actually he is playing with my life.His sis and mom told they are not interested to proceed the relation.he cant adjust with me anymore.He never shared anytg with me,he shares evertyg with his mom and sis.eventhough his sis is marrired.she always give suggestion to my husband how to proceed his life.My husband dont have any decision of his own.whatever his sis and mom sayg he follows.If they dont like me.y they bcame ready for this arrange marriage.
Now 6 months no contact with from his side.Only his father is in contatc with me.father in law sayg you patiently wait for some more time.But his son and daughter and wife never listens to his dad's word.So by beilieving my father in law's word how long i ll stay?????/My husband dont even know whether am alive or not?in which city am staying.???????
He knows very well that i love him and care him like anytg.and he is sayg, y i am loving him,i should love and care only his mom and sis.it is strange.......whenever he sees them his character will change 360 degree.as if am an alien.when we both are alone means he is so close to me.I will miss him badly that is true.But he is not even ready for a talk?so what shall i do?
what abt habeus corpus????????????????
M/s. Y-not legal services
(Expert) 22 May 2011
In Very bad situation you are. Sorry for you sister.. If you want proceed legally mean, just file a petition restitution of conjugal rights.. You have to serve notice to him, for that you want his abroad address.. If notice served mean any fruitfull thing may happened.
M/s. Y-not legal services
(Expert) 22 May 2011
In Very bad situation you are. Sorry for you sister.. If you want proceed legally mean, just file a petition restitution of conjugal rights.. You have to serve notice to him, for that you want his abroad address.. If notice served mean any fruitfull thing may happened.
M/s. Y-not legal services
(Expert) 23 May 2011
The second way is you may file a maintenance case against your husband for claiming some huge amount per month. Meager amount mean he can omit you also be ready to pay the money.. If you claim some huge amount mean he will try to defence his case. Here my advise to file a maintenance case just for money. Just i showing a way to get him in person. So you can bring him to india.. Then your talent to convince him..
M/s. Y-not legal services
(Expert) 23 May 2011
Then about habeas corpus petition, as an advocate i not allowed to fabricate a false case. I mean if you don't know anything about your husband mean, whether he is alive or not mean you can file a habeas corpus petition to produce your husband before court of law. But here you know very clear that he is in abroad, also working but not willing to talk with you. Then how the petition will liable? So that way closed for you.. Just take care.
