DIVORCE GUIDANCE

Querist : Anonymous (Querist) 07 July 2011 This query is : Resolved
"Dear All, I am 36 years all and from New delhi and got married in Nov 2003. The thing is from day one my marriage is in trouble. I am having two kids aged 7 and 5 years respectively and i am the only son living with my parents. In the last eight years i ignored many incidents of my wife and her family. Because of all this tension, in July 2010 I had no other option but to leave my parents in their old age and live with my wife on rent, now I have come back to my parental house and living on ground floor whereas my parents are living on first floor. The basic problem is my wife who is though physically with me but mentally at some other place. Every time she tries to degrade me and my family. There is lot of interference from my in-laws side. It is a long list of compromises. I doubt that she is having another man in her life. If I am right then he is the guy who is living just five houses away. Me and my parents have started keeping eye on her. And we found that the time my wife is out the guy just come up outside our house. Moreover, the cloth design and colour of my wife and the guy matches. Everyday there is a new thing from her. I met her mother many times, relatives but of no use. My life is suffocating. I want to get separate from her but I am having pressures from my family. My father is having artificial hip bone and mother is multi-disease heart patient. Further my both kids are with special needs. My daughter wear spects of -10 no. and son also suffers from febrile seizure. But i don't know till when i can control. Further we went for two year marital counselling after my marriage at Max Hospital also and treatment for my depression. My medicines were stopped four years back and counseling yielded no results. I would be grateful if you could clarify my following points : 1) What would happen to kids if I go for divorce? 2) Generally how much time it takes for divorce ? 3) How much money I have to pay her ? I am having a package of Rs.6 lakhs per annum 4) Whether she can claim part in my parental house, since I am living with them. 5) Whether it would be beneficial if I buy flat in my name ? You are requested to please advise what should I do. Whether I should get separate from my parents or not. Or I should apply for divorce. Need your guidance urgently Thanks, Gurman"

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Ravikant Soni (Expert) 07 July 2011
1) What would happen to kids if I go for divorce?
You r the natural guardian of your children.
2) Generally how much time it takes for divorce ?
There is no timeline for the same depends upon various aspects but usually 2-3 years if contested.
3) How much money I have to pay her ?
If she leave children with you then approx 20 percent of you income.
4) Whether she can claim part in my parental house, since I am living with them.
She can claim matrimonial house for domicile.
5) Whether it would be beneficial if I buy flat in my name ? You are requested to please advise what should I do. Whether I should get separate from my parents or not. Or I should apply for divorce. Need your guidance urgently Thanks, Gurman"
It would not help you of any kind.

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mahendrakumar (Expert) 08 July 2011
please seek the advise of the former councillor too in the issue as he/she will have a better picture of the all issue.

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