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soniya
(Querist) 26 September 2013
This query is : Resolved
hi my name is soniya i have been married for past six years but my mil is not ready to accept me as a member of this family she every now and keep on calling her relatives to stay ovr here with us needless to say they are her brother sister their childrens n mil mother is staying permanantely wid us since my marriage now the problem is every now n then my mil says me to go away from this home this house is in her name n she says me this always that idont hav any rights ovr here n i cant decide anything ovr here.my prob is really i donot hav any rights over here just coz d house is owned by mil or do i have legal right if yes plz tel me so that i can be on safer side as the prob is getting worst.plz help.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 26 September 2013
have you discussed your problems with your husband ? if your MIL does not want you to stay with her you and your husband can stay separately in rented flat . visit a marriage counsellor . you dont have any rights on your MIL property .
soniya
(Querist) 26 September 2013
but currently v r in position to stay seperately...right now v not financialy strong enough to buy or rent a house n moreover the prob is she never says her son to go out she only say me to leave.my husband has given money to repay the loan on this house however v dont have legal docs to prove it.i am not asking right on the property but just asking can she straight away ask me to walk away out of this hose just coz she owns it???
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 26 September 2013
You have no right on the property of your Mother in law. If you are not in a position to live separate, try to adjust, the position is bound to improve by passing of time. If it become impossible to live with MIL, living separate with your husband is the alternate left. Keep your husband in confidence.
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 26 September 2013
agree with experts.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 26 September 2013
REGARDLESS WHO OWNS PROPERTY.
you have aright to reside in matrimonial home and your mother-in-la will sound like this till she is can in CAW on the allegation of Domestic violence and told by the CAW police that she can reside in her house as long as you do not want her to be in prison with/without son.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 26 September 2013
you have so far not stated whether you are or you are not being tortured for dowry (you may not be even knowing what is dowry demand). SO no suggestion on this aspect.
It goes without saying that your parent may not be so financially sound as they could not buy a son-in-law who could earn sufficiently to live separately.
You have also not stated what is attitude of your husband. SO no suggestion on this aspect.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 26 September 2013
strict laws have been framed for women like you.
It is pity that people like you keep waiting for years whereas false complainants swamp the CAW cells
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 29 September 2013
Well advised by experts so no more to add.
