Protection order
Tanvi
(Querist) 29 March 2014
This query is : Resolved
I live with my daughter and husband. My very abusive mother-in-law is expected anytime at our house. Husband is also emotionally little abusive. I want a protection order against them. Can i get this, without involving them in this? To whom will the protective order be given? I want to get this only as a precautionary measure to warn them against any abuse and use it, if they exceed their limits. Is is possible without involving them in this?
Adv Archana Deshmukh
(Expert) 29 March 2014
Absolutely not... notice will be sent to the respondants against whom you wish to have a protection order. The respondants are given hearing before passing such orders. And ex parte interim orders are passed only when there is imminant danger, which does not appear from your case.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 30 March 2014
No protection order is possible unless you file case against them.
Your situation is not so serious as yet. Try to amicably solve it. Case is likely to break marriage than solving the problem.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 30 March 2014
I agree with the expert advise of Mr. Devajoti Barman.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 30 March 2014
Well advised by the experts, agree to it.
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 30 March 2014
agree with experts.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 30 March 2014
I agree with the experts views to your query. Do not be a reason to bring your own disaster through such unnecessary acts and so called precautions. Such wear and tears are normal in a family and household, the tolerance over petty issues will bring great pleasures not only for the present but also for the future well being.
Advocate. Arunagiri
(Expert) 30 March 2014
There is no provision in the DV act, to get any order "anticipating" some negative acts of your husband side relatives. the protection officer will not entertain any such complaint.
Any how the protection officer will be sitting in any of the Collector's office. The protection officer address and contact number, of your area, will be available on net.
malipeddi jaggarao
(Expert) 31 March 2014
You are not in the battle field to seek protective orders in anticipation. You have come into your husband's family should know how to adjust with the change of circumstances. Share your love and affection with every member of the family and win their hearts instead of drawing battle lines before hand.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 31 March 2014
Agree with Shri Barman.
Just behave normally. Do not anticipate DV
It at all it occurs, warn them before reporting it..
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 16 April 2014
agreed with experts. Please do not wait for long if DV is committed.
DV saavy persons do not come to terms without seeing red turban uniform at their house.
