Need help to get divorce
Saurav
(Querist) 02 January 2018
This query is : Resolved
Hi ,
I seek your advice very seriously on getting divorce on my particular case.
I have been married since December,2016 (more than a year now) and we have never been together more than 4 consecutive days as we are working in corporate sector in different cities. My wife has been giving false promise of her relocation to my place since one year. I cannot relocate to her place because I have some other work too which can't be possible at other locations.
Recently I asked to move to my location she totally refused to relocate. Her father is also giving bluff that she will move to your place(this is an arranged marriage).my wife does not pick call or reply to text anymore. I am very depressed and mentally tortured due to her behavior. My parents are also panicked and disturbed.
Please help me how to get divorce?
As we have never been together, is it easier to get divorce?
Do I need to pay resettlement for divorce?
Pls pls suggest the best way to get out of it.
Thanks
Vijay Raj Mahajan
(Expert) 02 January 2018
Best manner of divorce is by mutual consent when both parties agree and file joint divorce petition for MCD.
Otherwise you can individually file divorce against her on the ground of cruelty for remaining away from you and depriving you of conjugal relationship thus breaking the matrimonial home.
The opposite party may agree for divorce by mutual consent during mediation session in divorce proceedings and things become easier than for dissolution of the marriage.
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Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 02 January 2018
Try to solve and reconcile your issues/differences seeking intervention of elders/relatives/friends and/or common friends and save the marriage institution.
It has just been one year of your marriage, wherein you have not stayed together for few weeks and found unable to accommodate each other.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 02 January 2018
Drop the idea of restoring to legal remedy for the time being, which can be taken up any time and seek counselling.
Adv. Yogen Kakade
(Expert) 02 January 2018
Mr. Saurav,
In your case you may consult the elders in the family to initiate the talks about the divorce with mutual consent. If she is ready for the divorce then file for mutual consent divorce at the family court. If she refuses to get divorce, you may file a divorce petition with the help of strong grounds. Take a help of good lawyer to consult and guide you.
Adv. Yogen Kakade
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Saurav
(Querist) 02 January 2018
Thanks vijay Raj Mahajan, Dr JC vashista, and yogesh kakade for your kind and quick response which definitely help me to move forward in this matter. I will communicate with concerned parties and try to restore this marriage if possible.and then contact you intellectuals if restoration does not work for me.many Thanks again.
Sankaranarayanan
(Expert) 02 January 2018
Nothing more to be added, the queriest satisfied fully
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 02 January 2018
Dear LCI Querist @ Mr. Saurav,
It is good that you have agreed to act on suggestions without stretching the thread, unnecessarily.
Henceforth build an irrefutable record of efforts and responses.
It seems to another case of arranged marriage of two career conscious spouses that are unable to be compatible, so far.
If both you can attain understanding ad be compatible then on many fronts; say crossing floors and getting financial health in addition to good career you can work wonders.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 02 January 2018
http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/experts/Need-help-to-get-divorce-667166.asp
If all sincere efforts by all elders/friends/well wishers/councilors/mediators and BOTH of YOU etc etc Fail then MCD is the easiest, quickest recourse.
Contested divorce; per provisions of personal law that applies in your case, applicable enactments it may its time, cost factor and associated inconveniences…………
And court shall decide based on facts, record, merits…for the party that has come to court with clean hands and with merits
