Surrendered to rcr. what next?
kavkaz
(Querist) 25 February 2012
This query is : Resolved
I surrendered to RCR and denied all her charges, the Judge asked her to join me. But She refused and started demanding a separate accommodation to join me.
In her prayer, there is no such mention of a separate accommodation. Her allegations are all petty ones, such as not getting enough pocket money, restrictions in joint family to go outside, etc.
Now, as she is not ready to reconciliate, even though I am and also I agreed to the terms fixed by the Counsellor with regards to pockey money and so on, finally, the Judge told us that the case will now proceed.
Now, my question is which type of discussions will now start in my next hearing as I would always admit therein that I am ready to take her back and deny all her allegations and accept all the reasonable terms like pocket money, etc. so as to take her back.
The above is my story in brief, so What should be my strategy from next hearing onwards.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 25 February 2012
Your same strategy should go on till last as you discussed in the query. You shall have to establish beyond any reasonable doubt that you have no committed any cruelty towards your wife and she has no reasonable cause to remain separate from you and further that you have provided all amenities of life to her while she lived with you.
kavkaz
(Querist) 25 February 2012
Mr. Makkad,
And which kind of discussions on cruelty will now start in my next hearing as filing an RCR implicitly means that the wife is ready to go immediately with husband by forgetting all the past incidences.
Am I Right?
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 25 February 2012
Just file your Written Statement.
Then she will have to prove the case.
Later you will get chance to Cross Examine her . Further ask after this is over.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 25 February 2012
Let her prove the cruelty.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 25 February 2012
If her petition is for restitution of conjugal rights then just state you are ready to take her back as you never asked her to go away.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 25 February 2012
Unfortunately matrimonial petitions generally do not represent the actual intension of the parties concerned. What one see is not actual and what is truth do not find on petition/pleading so it is better to first create mutual trust and then to take any final decision.
My observation is supported with the adamant attitude of your wife over a matter even though the same is not finding place in her petition.
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 26 February 2012
It is not always easy Ld. Prabhakar Singh Ji,
I have seen RCR petitions from girl's side, which look like a dowry complaint. Accepting that means a death-kneel for men.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
