False 498 a & db
youngbro
(Querist) 14 January 2014
This query is : Resolved
Respected Lawyers,
Unfortunately my borther and parents are also trapped in this ' narakam ' due to one bad choice.
My brother got married on 26 april 2012, and the girl left the home on 10 th October 2012 came back with goonda khandan and took cheques for 7 lakhs for which we stopped the payment, she filed 498 case in June 2013 and domestic violence in August 2013, so far there 4 court hearings, when the judge asked for evidences her lawyer is saying they are willing for settlement with 15 lakhs, and the girl is already engaged to her maternal uncle 's son.
The girls anyways works in IT job earning 5 lakhs per year.
She had some emails from my brother in which he used some bad language, she using that weapon and making us dance on her tunes.
Question to experts, can we ask mediation that to question her why her demand has jumped from 7 to 15 lakhs and also what is the right procedure to get this done. Looks like those gondas want extort the money and NOT withdraw the case. Experts please suggest us right way to do it.
Thanks and Regards
Dr. Jyothi Vishwanath
(Expert) 15 January 2014
Before you seek advice on this forum
Use proper language. If you can use such language behind her back
I wonder how you talk to her directly.
If she is wrong and bad there are ways to tackle her. First your language has to be correct towards a woman.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 15 January 2014
learn to respect the lady . calling her bitch or other words wont resolve the issue .
if wife has filed Dv case case would be referred to mediation . if you dont want to pay her Rs 15 lakhs contest case on merits . you cant be forced to fulfill her exhorbitant demands
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 15 January 2014
On public platform, u r expected to use decent language.
by using filthy language, meaning do not change. Facts remains fact only.
best way to defend ur self, and postpone div.
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate 
(Expert) 15 January 2014
You are here in public seeking some favor, even otherwise your behavior in public should not to this low level. Your emotional outbursts should not prevail upon you to use such third grade language against women. As rightly opined, the fact will never change whether you use foul language or normal language to describe the event.
About the extortion or excess demand, as you said that she is already employed and drawing a very handsome salary, you can prove that and reject her claim over demand of ransom.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 16 January 2014
I shall not advise to such person who has no care even for the experts when he is openly using filthy language on public platform for her sister in law.
