Legal way to re-unite with husband
sairak
(Querist) 07 January 2015
This query is : Resolved
Hi Experts,
I had filed DV act and crpc 125 on my husband. Its been five months and my husband is asking to reunite with him and did not attend any hearing.
Am presently residing at my parental home with my 3 year old daughter. During this stay I have experienced the hard fact that being a single mother is very difficult so I decided to withdraw the case and go back to my hubby who resides in another state. Now my lawyer asked him to come and sign a petition that he wont repeat domestic violence gain in future and there will be a mutual agreement between us. My husband says that he will not sign any petition as he said that i filed a false case against him. There was a stage where warrant would have been issued but my lawyer told me to consider and asked my consent. What should I do at this stage if my hubby doesn't sign any petition, shall I go back or is there way to pressurize him?
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 07 January 2015
Do not think of pressurising him. Marriage does not survive on exercise of pressure.
Both of your have to build up mutual trust and confidence. Forget about the case and signing of any petition.
Start staying with your husband and build up the family together once again afresh.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 08 January 2015
I fully agree and appreciate expert advise of Mr. Devajyoti Barman.
Better to resettle in your matrimonial life unconditionally, mutual trust, love and affection without any sort of pressure.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 08 January 2015
Withdraw the case and join the husband if he agrees to continue with the marriage. Take assistance of the elders of both sides.
Agree with the expert.
sairak
(Querist) 08 January 2015
As said earlier I have decided to withdraw the case and start afresh my matrimonial life. My husband stays in another city so I just need an agreement that such domestic violence will not be repeated in future as I cant call my parents again to save me if any such incident occurs. I just want my child's and mine security.
If he doesn't have any guilt then why doesn't he want to sign an agreement.
ADV-JEEVAN PATIL, MUMBAI
(Expert) 08 January 2015
You have probably filed DV case consequent to stern relations. If it is otherwise, it is advisable to join him unconditionally in the interest of both.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 09 January 2015
1. You have already been advised adequatly by the experts, read them again for your own interest and benefit and proceed. No room left for "ifs and buts".
2. Forget the past events/happenings like a bad dream, such things do happen in everyone's life face them boldly as a challange.
3. Enjoy your married life unconditionally bestowing full love and affection to you husband, child and in-laws.
4. Best wishes.
sairak
(Querist) 09 January 2015
Thank you experts for your comments!
T. Kalaiselvan, Advocate
(Expert) 12 January 2015
The trivial issues are common not only in your household but almost in every household, but reconciliation between them leads to save their marriage. If the domestic violence was not of any serious nature, there is no point in harping over the issue which makes no sense at the end of the day. Better think wisely and join him back without insisting on any condition. The domestic relationship is continuous hence in the event of violence once again, you will get another chance to approach the legal forums.
