Illegal threat from my wife and her family members
Jaswant Sisodia
(Querist) 06 April 2015
This query is : Resolved
Dear Sir,
I need urgent suggestion on my married life. I got married three years back. due to lack of her understanding and maturity this relationship is not going well.due to this we don't have any kids. she always does behave in neutral way so that i can give her divorce and never corp-orated with me in any things of married life. whenever things gone wrong in this relation her family members always blame on me and my family members.and since three years they are giving warning of court case against me and my family. they never accepted my wife's mistakes and always blame on me and now they are involving my family members also.
Due to that misbehavior and and their warning I have started living separetly from my family with my wife in ahmedabad. two months back wife created false drama and run away from my flat at night and blamed me that i have slapped her and throw out from my flat. but that was totally wrong drama created by her. Now her brothers and her family members are harassing my parents and warned that we will do legal case against your whole family members although she was living with me since two years. still they are calling my parents are harassing. my father is govt employee and mother is also already suffering from illness. we have send our messenger at their home for mutual divorce but still they are misbehaving and spoiling our social reputation here and there. we whole family are really in trouble. every time they called me at their home and misbehaved me in front of her family and left no respect for me and for our family members. so many times she told me that if will do suicide if i would have dare to do it.
So please do the needful and give me some valuable suggestion. should we do any legal against against them? now its been 2 and half months she is at their home. now her brother is warning that if my sis will commie any suicide we will do police or legal action.
In short since three years they are harassing me and now they are harassing my whole family members and her brother abused me very badly on phone. Now no respect at all for each other. too much involvement of her family members and her behavior spoiled my life. and my career. she and her family members never accepted her any mistakes.i am still living separately from my parents.
So help me and give your valuable suggestion so that i can came out from this trouble.
adv. rajeev ( rajoo )
(Expert) 06 April 2015
It is better to go for compromise with the help of the elders.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 06 April 2015
Try to have amicable settlement with the help of elders, relatives and common friends.
If not possible, no other alternate but to bravely face the situation (female terrorism).
Jaswant Sisodia
(Querist) 10 April 2015
Dear Sir,
We are trying to have mutual settlement through our relatives elders but his elder brother is creating too much drama and saying that i will finish off this in court and also said to our messenger that i will not send my sister with you. he is trying to harass my parents anyhow. but her family members is not trying to talk to me. they are just trying to trap my parents because as per indian hindu marriage costumes our parents go to girl's home and fix the marriage so he want to take revenge from my parents.
Its been three years that we are running this relationship through settlement and compromise but whenever i took my wife with me she again and again do fake drama and tells to her family members that i am not behaving good with and just spoiling my reputation and blaming illegally.
So now i am also not ready to take her back with me because she has spoiled our social reputation and and my career by doing this drama. His brother is just taking revenge by harassing me and my whole family. although my wife is living with me separately from my parents. My wife is doing what his brother is telling him to do against us. he is using her as a lethal weapon again us.
so Please do the needful and suggestion me. should we start any legal action his brother or not? what should i do to save my family?
Thanks @ Regards,
J. S.
