Please advice urgent
Singh
(Querist) 12 June 2012
This query is : Resolved
I was married 2009 Jan and after 6 months a lot of problem coming in marriage and a lot day to day issues and many misunderstanding me and my wife and we both not trust each other.
My wife advocate and she got married in 1998 of that wedlock she has a son who is with her and is 13yrs old now. She got divorced in the ys 2005.Son stays with her parents. and before marriage she told me that they will treat her son like a brother not more than that all responsibility handle by her parents and they will adopt him. But nothing happen as she said before marriage.
In 2009 she got married to me and i am kidney transplant patient. My transplant done in may 2004.
Last 3.5 year she only stays my home only 5-6 month even not regularly. Even not 15 days she stay our home regularly. Always fight for small reasons and go back her home then i will go and try to convince her and she will be back some time after a month or sometime after 6-7 months.
Now, we not together from last 7 months and all relative try to settled the things but she not ready and ask need divorced and told need Rs.10 lac for giving me divorced. She told us i am advocate no other advocate save you and I will spoil your life. But relative come together and she is ready for Rs.3 lac.
Now all paper has done for divorced and we have given for her sign.
My query:
1. Now she told us e-mail me this documents. So please let us know can we e-mail to her is there any issue or not. Cos she always plan the things. And when we already given all paper she is advocate they know everything why she need paper on e-mail. She also scan the paper and e-mail herself.
2. She want to add in my paper, her son from the previous husband. Now I already mentioned from our Mary we don’t have any child then why she want to add this in my paper. Even her pervious divorced paper mentioned everything. They why she wants to add. Her son is 13 yr now and our Mary period is 3 year.
She has any plan or any problem to me if i do both the thing.
Please advice.
Regards
Adv.R.P.Chugh
(Expert) 12 June 2012
Dear Mr.Singh,
Don't try to read in too much into things. You are getting out for 3 lacs. Just don't pay the money until second motion is finalised. As regards the terms the term that she has a son from her previous marriage even if included won't make a difference he is a step son and has no right/interest in your assets and is not your responsibility.
Hire a good lawyer to make things are smooth.
Good Luck !
Guest
(Expert) 12 June 2012
If she is asking you to put in writing that you have no children, you may sign it, what's wrong in it, when it is correct. It is good for both of you to put it everything on paper.
Singh
(Querist) 12 June 2012
Thanks Bharat Sir,
She also told some relative. I will mail her divorced paper by e-mail. is there any issue. because she has all the paper and she can scan and mail her self. why she needed from my side by on e-mail. Any plan or she want any record , she can use in court.
If I sent the paper from my e-mail any problem to me.
Regards
Singh
(Querist) 12 June 2012
Dear Rao Sir,
I have already mentioned in paper we don't have child. prob not our child. My question she want to add in my paper she has son from previous marriage. If i add it make any difference in my case.
Second She need paper on e-mail. In-fact I have given all paper to her then why she needed paper from me on e-mail. If she want she can scan and mail herself.
Regards
Singh
(Querist) 13 June 2012
Thanks Devajyoti Sir,
Sir, In my paper mentioned Rs. 3 lac paid on the time of recording of the statement. Its fine sir or we have to change some thing else.
Regards
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 18 June 2012
It is OK.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
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