Threats and torture by ex girlfriend
Guest
(Querist) 11 August 2016
This query is : Resolved
I was in a 2.5 years of relationship with a girl I met at Gwalior. The relationship, the contact, the approach all was done by the girl. While, I always wanted to be just a friend. But she kept forcing and begging me to get into relationship with her. Then she managed to convince me for the same, but on the next day itself we broke up as I told her straight away, not to expect a future with me. Next day again she came back knowing there is no future. She was the one who managed to find me on facebook and contacted me and gave me her number to call her, but as I was not interested I told her I am not having balance and so I cant call you, she took my number, and kept speaking to me for an hour. On the fourth day itself she started calling me to her place saying nobody is here. From the day it began we had fights every week, either that I don’t talk to her enough or any silly thing. Later she started with all the non sense demands like, stop talking to such and such people and all that. Forced me to go to places and to not to go to places as per her wish. She took my passwords of social networking sites and talked to my female friends and spoiled all the friendship of mine with my friends. We had many fights and break ups earlier also. Sometimes she used to blackmail me and said talk to me right now or I'll keep cutting myself (when everything was normal and there was no fight at all) and things like that continued. We kept trying but it didn’t work. I started doing my post graduation course where I had a female friend, who once helped me to solve my issue with my ex. My Ex contacted my friend on facebook and thanked her for the help, but on the other hand she fought with me for talking and sharing it to my friend and asked me to choose between her and my friend, but as have already lost many good friends of mine who were there in my life even before her, I didn’t want to do the same again so I told her, if you have a problem you can leave, I can’t take this anymore. Now I have finally come up with the decision that I won’t be able to stay happy with her and won’t be able to deal with her demands I broke up with her.
But now she and her mother is threatening me and my family of charging us on cheating and rape (though it was she who kept asking me to go to her place when nobody was there. And it was her who came on her own will and i have that messages of her saying the same) and also the girl keep threatening me of suicide. And she has attempted that many a times. They are also blaming everything on my friend who helped me solve the issue with my ex, saying its because of you that everything got spoiled between us. And they keep harassing her either on whatsapp or phonecalls or from fake facebook accounts. I and my family is being tortured by she and her family on daily basis. Beacause of all the threats I have stopped going to the college as they come to my college and harass me even there or take me to their home to mentally harass me. My life is getting wasted just because of the threats they are giving us. While I am having her messages, saying that she was wrong but I am still worried if it will actually be helpful or not. Please help and guide. I am being tortured on daily basis.
rajeev sharma
(Expert) 12 August 2016
its the bane of having illicit relation . in this long query you are not clear on what point you want an expert advice.
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 12 August 2016
Member has deleted the a/c.NO reply.
adv.bharat @ PUNE
(Expert) 12 August 2016
You may approach a very able counsel specializing in service matters.
