Hi,
I am married close to 2 yrs and I have 11 months kid. Actually my wife(my past collegue) proposed me and I suggested to talk to parents and then to proceed. Though parents were not agreeing, we convinced them. later, I came to know her family background(illegal liquor business from home,..) and decided not to proceed futher. But she first talked to me rudely and then started Crying and pleading me and my mother. Even her brothers also convinced me saying that you will not have any problem after the marriage. Then convinced saying that there will no relation between her and her parents after marriage. So I convinced my family and went for marriage. Actually their parents wanted her salary, that is why they were not agreeing.
They took 3 lakhs loan with wife's name(my wife is paying that loan now also) for marriage expenditures. After the marriage , my wife started behaving with me and my parents like(talking harshly). I told her many times to change her way of talking. Moreover she complaints on my parents that they are talking rudely. At starting I believed her, later I realised as I personally know her way of talking. She goes to her house for almost every festival and If I say no, there will big fight. As she was not changing her behavior, I called and her parents (I expected moral support and thought they will guide her). But they did not discuss or talk to me any thing, straight forward started scolding me and my family and took her to their home. He said that I married her for her salary and I am torturing his daughter. . He aslo said that he will file the police case and will show what he is. I am actually working as Senior Manager and my take home is more than 4 times of her salary. Infact she pays her parents loan every month and paid their hospital expenditures few times
After this episode, I dropped many mails and SMS that our doors always open if she realises. She is proposing for separate familiy and also said that I have to convince her parents to bring her. I know about her parents how they behave when I go to their house, and I can not go separate as I am only the son and my parents has health problems . I am completely lost becauase of these problems. I do not want to separate my son from my wife. I know mother's love. But their house is bull sh*t environment like all illegal alcohal business,... That is why I want to get my son in case if my wife is not interested to move further with me.
I came to know that they are planning to file a fake cases(harassment, dowry) against me and my family. Please suggest me how to come out from this cases and is there any way that I can get my son ifI take the divorce.
Thanks in Advance.
Regards,
Manav
