child custody

What is the big deal where your friend is living?  Husband has also love and affection towards his child, why she  would like to avoid visiting his child as she is taying in village,whichever may be the case

1. Nothing (PERIOD)


Reasoning:

1a. Grant such access for a healthy growth of a child of any parent and you and me have no business to come in their way i.e. respective parents equal love and affection for their child(s) path by playing third party so called (read counselor) a social JUDGE.


1b. The "more such refusals" comes from child's mother, the more any father will push the mother of the child to come to a CITY Court so ultimately a child will suffer and you being her friend will be asked to help her more and more by doing such third party internet research and then you will feel your limitations in other parent(s) Vs. their child matters / situations.


1c. Hope you being a urban dweller (may be) may understand these better than your friend living as said in a (concrete) village ?


1d. Let we the educated people stop treating "all fathers" role to be that of mere "sperm donation"! Has it been so then all married wife will lead barren life post marriage in not so distant future as adoption and surrogacy doors will open up for fathers to choose over their own flush and blood child (litigation), so let us crate natural society not artificial society living in urban (read internet penetration) regions for natures selection sake !


1e. If you guide your friend not to give child access to her own father then once the child grows up and asks the question to you what will be your answer for that child???


Guide in such a way that the ‘welfare of child’ comes paramount and only a natural father and or a natural mother knows THAT better and not us accordingly unless you know for sure that a father is a CONVICTED rapist / CONVICTED murderer and even be that so may be even Hon’ble HC and SC 1-1/2 years back have granted CUSTODY (yes custody madam) to a murder trial natural guardian / father of his own child THAT ALSO a Female child. 

@Tajob's top class reasoning is correct. BUT women want to listen to what they want. She doesn't want TAJOBS reasoning and common sense. Possesion is all she wants.  SO HERE GOES: "possess the child. Let the friend come. Take the child to the door and instantly shut it. Then swear a phony affidavit that ex hubby and his friend are playing mind games. File a criminal case of attempted kidnapping by some man." When the child is 18, she/he will never see his/her mother's face again. One suspicion, why are the mom and the child living separately? Child hiding is akin to causing disappearence of the Child. Husband seems to be a clever man and unleashed third parties on the mom for making a foolproof case of Habeas Corpus against the mom in which case he'll surely get the custody of the child.

Tajob ji, perfect reasoning.  you enlightened the parents who are in the above situation.