I HAVE ALREADY POSTED THE CRUELTY METED OUT TO ME IN DETAIL IN THIS FORUM ON 07/12/2012 AND 14/12/2012 WHICH IS SELF EXPLANATORY . NORMALLY WHEN SHE DESERTS ME I DON'T GO AND SEARCH WHERE SHE IS RESIDING BECAUSE I KNOW VERY WELL THAT IT WAS A MASTER PLAN WITH THE FULL KNOWLEDGE OF HER ELDER BROTHER RESIDING IN MADRAS AND ELDER SISTER RESIDING AT MADURAI AND YOUNGER SISTER RESIDING AT KERALA . ONE MORE PERSON THE RELATIONSHIP WHAT SHE TELLS IS HER MOTHER'S ELDER SISTER'S DAUGHTER'S SON WHO OBTAINED REV. DEGREE IN NOVEMBER 2005 FROM THE INSTITUTION FROM WHICH MANY HAD GOT PASTOR , REV. , AND BISHOP DEGREES WITHIN 6 MONTHS OF HIS COMING TO MADRAS FROM QUILON IN KERALA. SOME BISHOPS WHO OBTAINED DEGREES FROM THAT INSTITUTION WERE ARRESTED ABOUT 4 OR 5 YEARS BACK AND ARE IN BAIL NOW.HE IS RESIDING WITH HIS WIFE AND HIS MOTHER 3 KMS FROM MY PLACE . HE EXECUTES THE MASTER PLAN . WHY I DID NOT GIVE ANY WRITTEN COMPLAINT ON HIM WAS BECAUSE OF THE REASON THAT I CANNOT FACE THE WRATH OF MY WIFE THEREAFTER. I HAVE ALREADY POSTED IN THIS COLUMNS THAT MY WIFE AND DAUGHTER HAD GIVEN A MINIMUM OF 10 COMPLAINTS TO THE CONTROL ROOM 100 AND WRITTEN COMPLAINTS ALSO TO THE LOCAL POLICE STATION . ALTHOUGH THE POLICE COME IMMEDIATELY MOSTLY AFTER 10.00 P.M .AND CALL ME FOR INVESTIGATION I REFUSE ON THE GROUND THAT IF THERE IS ANY INJURY ON THEM INTERNAL OR EXTERNAL YOU TAKE THEM TO THE HOSPITAL AND GET A CERTIFICATE AND FILE AN FIR .BECAUSE IN EVERY MATTER I WOULD HAVE FACED INTERNAL AND EXTERNAL INJURIES AND THE POLICE WILL NOT GIVE ME AN OPPURTUNITY TO PROVE IT AND LEAVE MY HOUSE . BUT THIS CREATES SEVERE MENTAL AND PHYSICAL STRESS ON ME .I AM ALREADY A HYPERTENSION PATIENT .LATER IN 1994 I WAS DIAGONISED AS A CHRONIC DEPRESSION PATIENT .IN JANUARY I HAD MY FIRST SEIZURE , CONCUSSION AND CONVULSIONS AND I WAS ADMITTED TO THE HOSPITAL WHERE MY FAMILY DOCTOR WILL SAVE MY LIFE EVERYTIME . MY FAMILY HERE IS MY DAD [ LATE ] ,MY MUM [ LATE ] ,AND MY BROTHER AND SISTERS WILL GO TO THAT HOSPITAL ONLY . MY WIFE AND MY DAUGHTER WILL GO TO THAT HOSPITAL ONLY . THE MASTER PLAN I HAVE MENTIONED HERE AND THE EXECUTION OF THAT AND THE INVOLVEMENT OF OTHERS MENTIONED ABOVE AND THE HARASSMENT BY THE POLICE CAN BE PROVED BY MOBILE CALLS FROM MY WIFE'S AND DAUGHTER'S MOBILES . CAN I PROVE ALL THIS IN THE NEW AMENDED LAW. EVEN THIS TIME I DON'T KNOW WHERE THEY ARE ? THE POLICE WERE THERE WHEN THEY LOADED 99 % OF MY HOUSEHOLD THINGS . THIS IS NOT THE DUTY OF THE POLICE , I HOPE .ON THE DAY THAT IS 1ST DECEMBER 2012 THEY LEFT POLICE CAME TWICE TO MY HOUSE . THE FIRST TIME IN THE MORNING WHEN THEY ASSAULTED ME IN MY HOUSE AND THE SECOND TIME TO VACATE THE HOUSE . BUT I HAVE INFORMED THE INSPECTOR [ LAW & ORDER ] ON THAT DAY NIGHT ITSELF THAT ALL THESE CRUELTY METED OUT TO ME IN ADDITION TO OTHERS WILL COME IN THE PETITION FOR DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE THAT WILL BE FILED LATER . MY WIFE HAD NO INTENTION OF FILING ANY DIVORCE PETITION .ONLY I HAVE TO FILE THIS . I DON'T WANT TO FILE THIS IN THE FAMILY COURT BECAUSE THERE WE HAVE TO FACE EACH OTHER AND OUR LAWYERS CANNOT SPEAK THERE. SINCE I AM A SEIZURE PATIENT I CANNOT BEAR THAT STRESS AS MY SEIZURE TYPE IS DUE TO EXECESSIVE STRESS WHEN APPLIED IT WILL CAUSE GREAT ELECTRICAL ACTIVITY IN A PARTICULAR PART OF THE BRAIN AND JUST AS THE FUSE GOES OFF SEIZURE OCCURS. NEURO PSYCHIATRISTS FROM THE UNIVERSITY OF CAMBRIDGE IN A LECTURE AT VOLUNTARY HEALTH SERVICES CHENNAI HAD STATED THAT THIS TYPE OF SEIZURE CAN BE INDUCED USING ELECTRODES IN THAT PARTICULAR PART OF THE BRAIN .THIS SEIZURE CAN CAUSE DEATH , COMA , HEART ATTACK AND PARALYTIC ATTACK. ALL OF THEM ARE FULLY AWARE OF THIS AND HAD CREATED THE WORST SITUATIONS SO THAT I MAY DIE . BUT MY GOOD GOD HAD SAVED ME AND I AM STAYING IN MY HOUSE [ RENTED ] FROM 1ST DECEMBER 2012 ALONE . CAN I BRING OUT ALL THESE IN THE NEW LAW ? I WANT TO FILE THE PETITION IN THE HIGH COURT ONLY UNDER SPECIAL MARRIAGE ACT BECAUSE I NEED NOT MEET ANYBODY FACE TO FACE. IS THERE ANY OPPURTUNITY FOR CROSS EXAMINATION OF EACH AND EVERYONE INVOLVED ? WILL THE COURT CALL FOR THE PHONE CONVERSATIONS OF EVERYBODY INVOLVED IN THIS IF I PROVIDE THE DETAILS OF THE PHONE CALLS WITH DATE AND TIME ? THE NEXT IMPORTANT MATTER IS WHEN I GET BACK MY BANK JOB WITH ARREARS OF PAY FROM 1995 CAN MY WIFE CLAIM ANY SHARE FROM THAT .SHE GOT RS.14 LACS AS RETIREMENT BENEFITS IN THE FIRST WEEK OF NOVEMBER 2012 AND SHE TOOK EVERYTHING . HER MONTHLY PENSION IS RS 16,000/- PER MONTH AFTER COMMUTATION OF PENSION .I AM NOT BOTHERED ABOUT HER MONEY AT ALL RIGHT FROM OUR MARRIAGE IN 1989. BUT I KNOW THAT I MUST GIVE TO MY ONLY DAUGHTER .WHAT PERCENTAGE THE COURT WILL DECIDE FOR MY DAUGHTER . I AM READY TO GIVE THAT . WHY I WANT DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR ANY REMARRIAGE AS THIS ONE IS ENOUGH FOR ME . I SHOULD NOT GET INVOLVED IN ANY CRIMINAL CASES IF I DON'T GET DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE .I WANT TO LIVE IN PEACE FOR THE REMAINING PART OF MY LIFE .- JOSEPH WILFRED - 28/12/2012 AT 22.30 HRS.