Hi,
I have not put anything here due to emotions. My wife used to beat my son when he was merely a year old.
She used to forcefully put food in his mouth to save her own time while feeding. She took a job and left
him with me, when he was just 2.5 years old, and started staying in a women hostel as she though she may not be able to take the liability of caring him and job both. She used to tell job is her first priority. after 9 months staying outside when she feared I will take some legal action she came back promising that she will make everything ok. Then her mother turned up one fine day and she with her mother filed false FIR (498a) after 5 years of the marraige. She then withdraw my son from the very good public school and started sending him to her own school. She gave affidavit in the school for getting transfer certificate. When my son was sick many times in those 9 months she never cared to come back to my house. I had to care for everything of my son and played role of mother and father both. Now she is keeping him with her in some slum type area without any facility. He used to have accesses to child play area in my layout and used to do sliding and swinging etc. My wife is expecting me to bow on my knees and go to her ignoring all FIR etc. She tells me that for sake of child she expects me to go to her and give in writing that I will not harass her for Dowry and will not beat her. I have never done this and she is asking me to confess for what I have not done. It is too risky for me to stay with her even for sake of the child. So asking for your legal opinion, in what way should I present my case?
I am able to spend 4 hours with the child in presence of mother every sunday, this order I got from court.
There is going to be arguments on interim custody soon. I have proofs of her staying outside for 9 months and and medical prescripttions of the doctor where my child got sick. He goes to day care now whereas my parents used to care for him after his shcool. My wife is a very cruel lady, she and her mother used to threaten me that they will kill my son when he was very young. I do not have any evidence for it. So I am already scared what she will do with the child in future. Though child seems to be ok with her for 9 months. But she take him to all sort of violant hindi movies with her and does not care what effect will be on him. she has scared him and brain washed him so much that on meeting him I get surprised to hear certain things from him, which only old people can speak. She control him by her eyes movements.
