if wife's not agree for sepertn?

:-(

 

@ Author,

Very simple………


1. Ask for Rs. 1 Cr. (irrespective if he is hands to mouth creature on this tiny planet)
Reasoning: He will never achieve divorce !


2. Ask for property rights (irrespective if he is living in a joint family).
Reasoning: After death of his folks will he not acquire the ancestral property !


3. Demolish all his ‘alleged allegations’ as in his Divorce plaint.
Reasoning: That is what you want don’t you?


4. File multiple Maintenance Cases upon him along with residence rights.
Reasoning: he will now think 100 times if all his compel was worth it!

5. Sparingly I suggest “ask for reconciliation”.
Reasoning: If two persons donot want ‘union’ of mind, body and soul then even Lord Brahma can’t wave his wand !


6. If you are young and minus child and empowered enough then follow para 4 and carry forward with YOUR LIFE.
Reasoning: Get convinced with para 5 is the only reason I can conjure enough to say at this juncture.

Lost then read finally and or follow “PATIENCE is a virtue seldom found in men but always god gifted to women” well is it sooooooooooooooo !!!!!


All the best.

@uttara

If wife use all these tactics that is given by tajobindia then husband cannot  compels her/files divorce case. how can she save her married life?

 After using these  tactics ,Husband have these option: 1 He marry to other girl irrespective the fact that he already married.

2.He either finish his life( as after filing multiple cases as tajob said) or finish her life and go to jail or marry to other girl or become insane look these icon

3.There is no law which comple to husband or wife to join matrimonial life.

look all these are reality( there are many cases ) not my views.

" 3.There is no law which comple to husband or wife to join matrimonial life."

 

-  ABSOLUTELY CORRECT.

IF YOU not agreed for divorce then nobody can comple you and if your husband willfully avoid matrimony none can comple him to do so. maximum he can file a contest divorce case, where he has to prove his allegations against you. if you want to save your matrimony, realise his side also, that will help you to solve your matrimonial problem.

@Arup 

There is no law which comple to husband or wife to join matrimonial life.

 

When someone walk out your life, let them. They are just making more room for someone better to walk in.

Love is blind and marriage is the institution for the blind.

Someone said,"Marriage is a Pure Gamble, like any other thing in life. No matter how much u know the guy / gal, you never get to know fully about the person before marriage at all. Marriage is good only if ur spouse is good, else its hell, especially with these extra marital relations coming up these days. Its more of a companionship, partners must be respecting and loving each other, trust is also important. Things like infedility and anger destroy a marriage. "

 

It's million dollar question!!

 

More or less around 80% of the cases, in india. wives don't want to break apart from matrimony. Nothing can make-up for the loss/break-up of matrimony ...maintenance alimony etc are just remedies for subsistence further.

 

The detering clauses of connivance, taking advantage of own wrongs etc are meant for such cases where .......

 

The guilty party (man willing for break-apart without reasons/fault of spouse) does everything to evict the victim (woman) from home 

OR

The guilty party (woman willing for break-apart without reasons/fault of spouse) does everything to eject from home for some excuse against the victim (man).

 

But don't expect them to be conceding in court or anywhere that ...'Yes I am guilty...but still I want divorce!!!!'

Don't be surprised by their faul-cry that they are victims!!!

 

But laws are laid out on ......... the classical theory................... but strategy to win divorce culminates into giving all other extraneous colours to the real dispute.

 

You (none of the spose) can't be compelled to concede for divorce unless you succumb to prolonged tactics and litigations.

 

Also Other party (whether man or woman who's asking for a break-up whether for genuine or ficticious reasons) can't also be compelld to stay together (but that doesn't mean that they become eligible for divorce by unilateral declaration. Divorce is granted on merits and ground mentioned in law, otherwise not).

 

The separatist (let's assume only those cases where they 'are playing victims and ingenuine') elements would do everything to embitter the matter and also try to minimise costs/get away with less penalty

 

If you want  to retain the 'married' tag (just on paper..............without any married life in real!!....... Is this what you are asking?)...then you have be very patient, clam and .......

be ready to sustain the pressurizing and opponent's exhausting tactics as well and use the tactics which foil the other/separatist party's strategy!!! It's not simple though!!

What are those tactics? ..........it depends on case to case!!

 

 

you may win against the divorce plea(again depends on many parameter...merits, lawyer,judge, money etc etc)...But the more you drag the matter... chances of reconciliation diminish.

 

There are case where people were fighting for decades but still divorce wasn't granted... 

Just want to know any of one whether boy or girl can forward an application to move there case to mediation court to settle down and in case girl dont have strong proofs against boy and she moves an application to the court to move her case to the mediation so this application will leave what kind of effect on her case

one has the right to get mediation.

he / she can demand it by oral or written application.

in divorce cases it is now treated as a compulsary element.