My Father wants to disowning me and my wife

you will get the share of your ancestrial property.

treat to you by your family is inhumane.

however you and your wife try to do some job or business. this will down the family tension.

How are your parents-in-law placed? Are they sympathetic to you? Are they in a position to help you? This is a very sad story.

Dear,

Its really sad to hear this kind of issues

First you try to get some job to take care of you and your wife

treat your self in government hospital where you can save 50% of the cast comparing to private hospitals

check if your wife parents can help you to get good job or if they are in position to help you financially to keep any store - something - to do business ( but make a agreement that you will return back thier money by instalments or as per your convience to avoid future problems)

Dont force your wife to go for job unless she is interested

dont go for arguments with your family members once you settle they will come back - sure