Need advice

sir you will be soon slaped by 498A.DV and other cases , so get prepared for this also tell your advocate to be prepared for AB. you read the post. for visitation is consult go through my posts where Ld experts gave solid and nice advise and there are also good reply i am pasting the links: go through it------------

https://www.lawyersclubindia.com/forum/Visitation-67146.asp#.UIF8wa71T2M

https://www.lawyersclubindia.com/forum/Visitation-rights-67057.asp#.UIF84q71T2M

https://www.lawyersclubindia.com/forum/details.asp?mod_id=58674&offset=2#.UIF9OK71T2M

https://www.lawyersclubindia.com/forum/False-498a-case-against-me-64798.asp#.UIF89K71T2M

then plan and act accordingly , i am also on the same boat with you.

Thanks Sir. It has boosted me to file a petition for visitation rights.

On your first para – Rightly said by ld. Magistrate what the Hon’ble Chair has to reason out to an errant metro wife in open Court. Fight “dowry” allegations on its merits. It takes time but the fruits are richer afterwards.

On your second para – By advising you such and such your advocate has closed your doors even after 5 years and forever. I would rather suggest to do your fatherly duty and seeks “rights of the child of her visitation” to natural father / grandmother. Initially she may be remorseless but it is important that she knows about you and her grandmother. It is like saying after 18 years suppose she leaves home and goes and stays with friends home so will one not look after her till 18 years! Seeking visitation of your own child from Courts is more painful than getting divorce. May be your advocate reasoned out the perpetual pain via his wisdom advise.

On your third para – It is like approaching with unclean hands and depending on the gravity of hidden material facts criminal relief can be opted for. But be it known in every family law cases 15% perjury and or unclean hands approach is followed and only if it is in interest of justice which is widest interpretation Court entertains counter case.

Sir thanks a lot for your kind advice.

Originally posted by : chandermohan
	Dear Sir / Madam,                                My second question is that my wife and my inlaws dont allow me to meet my 1 year old daughter so i told my lawyer to file a petition for visitation rights, but he adviced me that he will file and will get fees from me but for 5 years if i will be able to meet my daughter and after that court can ask my daughter that do you want to meet your father but by that time my daughter would have been miss tought and all noncence against me will be tought to her that she will refuse to meet me and by that time i will be use to meet her and if my daugter refused in court i will get more depresed, so my lawyer adviced me not to file a petition for visitatioin rights. Waiting for your kind advice

You have got to file for visitation . I am suprised at your lawyer not having  confidence in himself. yeah its painfull .what 's the use of possesing a degree than ?? phew losing confidence even before the final assualt has taken place 

When the court says that daughter does not want to meet the father ask the court tomorrow daughter says she does not want to go to school will they agree to her . come on dont lose faith at least in your self . Tomorrow opp liar will say father is drunkard ,rapist,drug dealer etc etc . will you agree . When criminals even get vistation rights under supervision why cant you get visitation rights under supervision . Dont worry you will get at the most they may be a delay .

Thanks a lot sir. Now i will deffinately file  petition for visitation rights. I just want to know one more thing that petition can be filled only for visitation or is it compolsury to file custody and visitation.

does it will be better if  instead of visitation applying for custody and in that it is mention that i need visitation till custody case decision take place and in vistitaion mention the demand of 7 or more days to stay child with the applicant?

this is becuase those wife not even allowong to send a single minute with the child, they get annoyed of it, and if court order in applicants favor then it is very good otherwise court order for at least one or two days if not then whole day morning to evening,

it is just bargaining type any way it is my veiw ,

Experts can analyse better , and their suggestin , guidance is needed here.

File for custody and than and interim application for visitation .