Need help-divorce

you have filed domestic violence case in which you must have leveled some allegations against your husband.. but still u wanted/ want to live with him. i would advise u to talk to him personally and get the differences resolved mutually instead of legal proceedings.

A marriage of 13 year old and a daughter of 11 year old of that marriage, even then the couple parted on squibbles.  Despite knowing exact nature of squibbles, difficult to tell to you about the would be fate of divorce petition he has filed.  It is difficult to get divorce in India, and it is more difficult to get a divorce from a marriage of 13 year old.  So, be confident.  As per the prevailing law, the divorce can be granted to the husband on a very limited grounds such as cruelty, adultery and wilfull desertion etc.  The courts won't grant divorce on the ground of squibbles.  So, engage a pernicacious and sagacious advocate in divorce case and contest it on merits and his divorce petition will be dismissed.  THAT DOES NOT MEAN HE WOULD COHABIT WITH YOU.  Unwilling partners cannot be forced to cohabit by the power of law.  In his divorce case, you can file an application under Section 24 seeking maintenance and also litigation expenses.  The maintenance that can be awarded for you and your daughter under this section ranges from 1/3rd to 1/2 of his income.  The court expects that you and your daughter are entitled to live the same living standards as if you were living with your husband.  For getting maximum benefit under this provision, your advocate must take appropriate steps to call for his income records from his employer.    

Squabbles as in he being insensitive to my needs, Giving priority to work other than family etc. The dv case filed by me has some allegations which were construed to et maximum money benefit. If I m not able to prove them would it add benefit to his divorce case? Would withdrawing my dV case help here? Or shld I keep fighting it? I had already awarded interim maintenance in DV case. My lawyer had suggested to solve the dv case mutually in front of the judge to which my husband didnt agree. He is hell bent n fighting the DV case which we doing since last 1.5 years.

Grounds of divorce is cruelty

Dear Sister,

when, the time was there to make our self understand before proceeding ahead in filing DV Case, you did not bend a little. Now, how can you expect your husband need to bend a little and support in withdrawing your DV Case. Now, he has will to prove your wrong in front of Judge and filing Divorce case on the basis of cruelty.

Why you ladies always think from other's mind? Why can't you apply your own mind and heart? Later on, you realize a need of your husband. How disgusting is this!

Here and anywhere in this world, a married lady/women has to understand that she is a backborne of her husband and his family. She represents the value of culture of any family.

She is the only one who represents a cultured family infront of other and people take her an example of a decent married women, who loves her husband's family and her own family, respect them a lot, create a great value of life, make them happy, well cultured in growing their kids, educate their kids nicely, bla bla bla...

Once, you become a wife and daughter in law of someone, that does not mean that LAW is always in favour of women. If she thinks than, why don't you file a complaints agains your own parents. Why do you sacrifice a need for which your parents are unable to fullfill, why do not you fight for that with your own parents?

I don't want to get into all these dirty stuff, but, thought to make some ladies understand that they should teach themself first and then try to teach a lesson to someone else. The movement you will try to teach a lesson to yourself first, then, there will be no need to teach a lesson to someone else. I am guruanteed you.

Thanks for your replies

Since few months I am trying to get in touch with my husband like having face to face meeting but he is very adamant in meeting me only in presence of his lawyer. I don't know where is staying as his house is locked all the time. I do know his work place but I don't want to barge in there as he might used it against me in the court. We both don't have good relationships with either the families so common contact is also not there...nor any common friends to help.

Wouldn't it be considered a mental cruelty on his part not to meet his legally wedded wife if she is asking for it? 

If I have to withdraw my DV case now (interim maintenance is granted) would it amount to losing my interim maintenance too?

Wouldn't it be considered a mental cruelty on his part not to meet his legally wedded wife if she is asking for it?

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