Respected advocates, and forumn members
1. My wife walked out of the house during August 2011. We were married for 13 years, and have one boy and girl. She disowned all of us, including her father, two brothers, except another brother.
2. She sent SMS in December 2011 that herself and her brother are in varanasi. Few times, kids spoke to her phone, but she was mostly listening and wasn't responding mostly, and answers to any questions was 1 line.
3. When i spoke to her once, she said, she will come back after mid-april 2012 for discussions. In first week of april, she sent a message through a cousin that I need to meet her lawyer, and they gave a contact details. I refused meeting the lawyer, since i don't want divorce for sake of kids.
4. She accused myself and my mother of cruelty before leaving, but none of that is true. She and her brother also want to lead spiritual way, and her brother said, god came in front of her, carassed her, hugged etc. She gave few conditions like she will not be my wife and be mother to kids only etc. She used to leave the family and go with her brother on temple visits ignoring family responsibilties before (atleast twice in the past). When i questioned their third trip, it all lead to separation and fights.
She is not reachable on the phone number since last 5 weeks, and i have tried asking known contacts, no one has any idea on their whereabouts or contact details.
Her father and other two brothers are helpless, and don't want to take any initiative also.
5. My advocate said, we can file for desertion and cruelty after one year of separation date. I would like to know what proofs are typically required for desertion.
6. what would be the prayer in the seperation petition?
Please help
