My sister got mutual divorce recently from her husband who is an NRI.Divorce happened as there was cruelty and desertion by him.The whole family was fraudulent type and habitually used bad language at home,even for the aged father,husband's grandmother and towards others.Their own relatives have accused them of being bad tempered and manipulative type.
Earlier cases were filed but they were quashed as it was affecting our parents' health and sister's health .
Now off late we are getting calls from various families of those girls who are having arranged marriage negotiations with her ex.
They want to meet us to know her husband's and in-laws' nature in advance.We managed to tell one family their true natures.So they decided not to pursue with them.
Now other families are wanting to meet us to know the truth.Some of them also came to know of the cases filed against them which were only genuine and want our cooperation in showing them her case file,so that they can know whether my ex-brother-in-law is fit to become a son-in-law of their family.
They are pleading us to meet them and tell all the truths,or else that will spoil their daughters' lives if they are married to the wrong man.
Please advise should we tell them honestly of their real character of cheating,fraud and physical violence?
On one hand we don't want another innocent girl's life spoiled by a fraud,abusive family.They are requesting us to meet them.Our conscience tells us to help innocent people who may be unaware of their fraudulent,harssing traits.We don't want to refuse helping them.
On the other hand we are perplexed,if her ex-family comes to know we are helping these girls who are seeking our help, can they blame us for defamation?
Please advise the correct action,so that innocent girls are saved,and we are not put to risk.
