My girl friend and me are from two different communities (religions) and we are trying to get married on our own. Both of us reside in Delhi however neither of us have anything else than PAN cards / private mobile bills / Bank A/C (non PSU Banks) and as common citizens we don't want to bring the local SHO into the scenario to spoil the mood of the occassion. I am 30 she is 26 and both are employed. Now my question to my law professional friends is - Is the Special Marriage Act too stringent to deal with when it comes to
a) Address Proof (which no one has of what is prescribed as per the book)
b) Sending notices to the address of the parties (my girl is reluctant to let her parents know until we have a hard copy of the marriage deed in our hands, as they are not going to be very happy with this move of hers)
If any lawyer friend can help by sharing his email id and a hint about the fees (apart from the government's 100 INR) I will be glad to be his/her client for all civil matters.
PS: kindly no questions about our religious identities please