Hello all respected members and readers. WIth all due respect to the women and their families, iam writing this not biased to anyone but just referring to my case of threatenings by my inlaws.
I got married an year back and in just few days got to see the bad behaviour of my wife and negligence of my inlaws to my family in all respects.
As time passed her mental torture increased on me with lot of threatening of police with false complaints and i started involving her parents thinking they would counsel and help.
Instead they asked me to send her back to India and i did that. Now they have communicated through some channel that they are powerful guys and are threatening me with dire consequences. Also, have told that my i cannot maintain any contact with my wife for two years. They also have claimed false allegations of me harrassing my wife, which is false. Infact i got beaten by her to provocate me to do something wrong to call police.
I have realized that her parents are powerful and are planning to make me come to Jaipur where they have Marwadi strength and teach me a lesson with their powerful contacts.
I have decided i need a divorce as im froma simple family and not used to such threatening.
NOTE: I HAVE NOT TAKEN SINGLE PENNY IN MARRIAGE
Can you believe, till today i have not seen my marriage video. They never interacted with my family after they married their daughter. Marriage was done in Jaipur and in marriage the gifts from guests were also claimed to be stolen.
The aim of my inlaws is now to just mentally harass me and get even with me .. but i dont know for what. I never took anything from them and the day we got marrid i got her to USA. She wanted green card. which i did not get.
Following are my questions:
1. Iam from hyderabad and she is from Jaipur. What do i do to safe guard myself from being pulled in to Jaipur and be tortued by their power. If any court case starts i prefer it to be in hyderabad. We did get married at girls place in Jaipur. But what do i do to dtay in hyderabad. Iam not confident of Marwadi's and in jaipur local people.
2. How do i safe guard myself, parents with false 498a case and other false cases.
Note: i have planned to ask my father to safe guard himself by giving a statement to the DCP pf hyderabad that they were never involved in my dispute as they never lived with us since the day of our marriage, as we were not in INDIA.
3. How do i proceed to plan for divorce. They are already planning to mentally harass me by talking of my property that i acquired before my marriage.
4, If iam the first to proceed to ask for divorce will i have to pay huge money and how much.
5, SInce my wife is with her father and he has not responded to any calls or emails since she is in INDIA, im not sure what to do next.
Please help..