My wife filed a false 498A and DV case in Aug'12. I was in remand for 7 days. Police report is due for next month. Because of long legal seperation, no one except myself were arrested. I didn't took any dowry at all, We have a son (10 yrs), staying at in-laws, I filed for divorce in 2007 as she is having illegal contacts. She repeatedly said in court that she want to join back and it is all false, however this case was dismissed for default (I was away, PoA and Lawyer didn't attend properly). Now she is demanding for huge amount for compensation and share in properties. We are hardly together for 2 years. She is a Govt. employee and earning 50000/month. I am ready to take custody of my son and/or give maintanace to him, but do not want to see this woman again or give any compensation.In DV case she acused me of having 2nd marriage and a son. I am having live-in condition with a women(divorcee having a son, not mine). They are family friends, wish to marry after divorce. However my wife's lawyer produced a birth certificate as attachment mentioning my name as father's name.
My questions : 1. What must be my approach about this live-in relationship ? 2. What must be my stand about this birth certificate ? 3. There is an order from court not to sell any properties, now I am jobless, need to dispose some of them, what is to be done? Can I claim maintenance from her salary until this is settled?