Hi All,
I am posting this question after getting very frustrated from my life. I got married on 16th April 2016. After 15 days of the marriage my wife has shown me her actual face where she asked me to give my salary to her instead of my family. Also, she did some unnecessary activities which my famliy didn't liked. We are a middle class family and we believe in piece and simplicity but i belive my wife is different and she doesn't wants to stay in a joint family. She wants to give her money to enjoy and i will never ask about the money where she has incurred. She tried to abuse my younger sister and my mother too and expressed her feeling about them e.g. that i get angry then i don't know what i'll do whether will mess the family or will commite suicide. On this rakshabandhan she went to her family now her family is also supporting her specially her mother. When my family asked her to come back because now she is the part of our family but she has spare too much false information about my family and balmming my mother, me and my younger sister that she is living in so many restrictions, she can't eat the food as per her choice and she can't go anywhere, and many more. Whenever we called our Aunty who was the mediator for this marriage she tells us a new story everyday that today she tell us this and yesterday this. We tried to ask her to come back but she and her mother are not following our words. I don't know what to do now. I am very disappointed. Sometimes i feel to commite suicide. But then think that my family is behind me, my parents, younger sister and borther. Please suggest what should i do in this regard. Please let me know the best way to come out from this mess.