wife niether willing to live nor giving divorce
Sunil Sharma
(Querist) 29 October 2015
This query is : Resolved
M 32 year old married man,got married in 2015,since my marrige my mother in law was living at my parents place,due to my parents age & illness ask my mother in law to give us some time & compermise a bit & stay at her elder sistet,because of the same matter got disturded & my wife with her mother start living at their place,our every trying thing failed in last 6 months or so,neither she coming back nor giving any sign of divorce,what legally I can do
Guest
(Expert) 29 October 2015
Deal the problem psychologically. Forget her completely for some months to make her remember you and make some sensible decision after passage of time without your interference, when she and her parents would face questions from their own relatives and nearby society for living separately even after marriage.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 30 October 2015
not a legal problem yet.
on this site (or elsewhere) someone will advise you to send notice of RCR while is a sure and tried method to provoke and corner your wife where she is left with no option but ot file criminal case of Domestic Violence and Dowry demand (true/false) against entire family and you keep running and womiting money.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 30 October 2015
Prima-facie it appears that your MIL has no place to live (atleast appearing from the sketchy facts given) and you have provoked your wife by throwing her out.
Go fo peaceful solution
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 30 October 2015
Try to adjust,
If she want to live with her mother try / explore / examine the possibility of separate residence or residing at their residence and visit your parents in week days.
Sunil Sharma
(Querist) 30 October 2015
My MIL is emotionally torcharing us to stay with us only,she having elder daughter (very wealthy) but MIL refused to stay with her stating "she is having family problems",,,,,,_I am agreed to share the responsibility but she is not compermising at all,wife also not getting the fact that her own life is on the stake due to that,,,,,,,,,,,
Sunil Sharma
(Querist) 30 October 2015
I had tried to convince her with even separation from my parents,the answer always "vl see & discuss with relatives" ,even offered her to stay as per her choice & make schedules (as both lives in same city & 10 min. Distance) but no response yet to any of our given solutions.
K.S.Srinivas
(Expert) 30 October 2015
I agree with the advice of Sri Sudhir Kumar.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 31 October 2015
wife would be criminally liable if she declines her obligation to maintain old mother.
Fulfilling of obligation under any law [including Sr Citizen Maintenance Act] is no ground for seeking divorce.
You still have to work very hard to spoil your life.
Sunil Sharma
(Querist) 31 October 2015
Is there no law stating that both child's are eqaully responsible for mother (boys or girls),caus in my case my wife's elder sister refusing to take responsibility & my wife getting emotionally blackmailed
Anirudh
(Expert) 31 October 2015
Why can't you ask your MIL to come and stay with you. In that case your wife will be with you.
Guest
(Expert) 31 October 2015
Better Handle This Matter with Humanity rather than Legality.Your Mother in Law is Comfortable with your Wife than Others and your wife also seems to be fond of her Mother and Nothing wrong in it.Have an amicable Remedy and Both of you adjust and all of you that is your Parents Mother in Law and Wife could stay together and Lead a Pleasant Life at Home.
Guest
(Expert) 31 October 2015
Is your father-in-law alive?
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 31 October 2015
Go to a marriage counsellor along with your wife.The situation like the one you are facing can not be solved by legal experts sitting far away from parties.
Sunil Sharma
(Querist) 03 November 2015
She filled application in women cell & with in 15 mins. Asked for 10lakh cash for settlement even after the women cell IO asked me for signing a statement that I am agree to keep my wife with me,but she refused & asked for 10/lakh stating its expense which accured in marriage,while we had a love marriage without any expensive expenditure.
