Divorce
Ashwani
(Querist) 20 April 2012
This query is : Resolved
Hi,
My brothers married life is only 2 months old the attitude of his wife is not well with him and my family. My brother as well as family trying to make her calm & cooperate but her attitude is just like she is the boss of house & family even her parents supporting him in her activities. She told to my brother that he is weak to give her pleasure & her parents supporting her even in this condition also. According to my brother he well regarding this he also done his medical tests which shown he is normal. His wife and parents threatning us that they murdered my brother and family even girl also threatning to my brother and told him that she never give divorce and her family also not interested in divorce. Her father told that the life of their daughter gone so that we also have to suffer.
So kindly advise how to handle this situation as we are in great tension.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 20 April 2012
The best way to resolve the issue is to amicably settle the dispute involving family elders.
If it fails then legal recourse is the only option.
For this you may file case for criminal intimidation.
You may file divorce case but sine the marriage is not 1 year old it would not proceed further till 12 months expires.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 20 April 2012
first precaution
ask your brother to stay separate in rented accomodation . once she has stayed separate things may improve .
consult a marriage counsellor .
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 20 April 2012
Hmmm,
Though the first step should be to try to resolve the situation amicably.
However, don't take matters lightly now that threats have started.
Join http://forum.498a.org/ and the local SIFF chapter.
If you think that undersigned can be of any help, feel free to contact.
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
sibasish pattanayak
(Expert) 20 April 2012
Dear ashwani,
i also agree with the other expert , but i like to suggest you, please try to convince HER on the ground that , when your brother is unable to give pleasure then as to why she is goin to spoil her life , better to next opt.
other wise your have to go first before the legal umbrella .
sibasish pattanayak,Advocate ,
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(Expert) 22 April 2012
thats girls family threatening your family., they dont have ant rights to do that., you can take necessary actions against them.,
but the rest of things should be decided by your brother only., whether joint family., or separate family., or divorce.. its according their wishes.,
-tom-
Santosh Goswami,Advocate
(Expert) 22 April 2012
The option available to you is divorce on the ground of cruelty.Constant threatening to life does amount to an act of cruelty. But the problem is you can't file the petition within one year of marriage.Its also not advisable to file a criminal complaint because then she may file some fake criminal cases against u and your family.But the confusion is that o the one side she is saying that you can't satisfy her and on the other she doesn't want to divorce you.Be in touch for a concrete solution.
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