Anandi S Kursija
03 October 2017 at 15:12
Hi there,
me and my husband tied knots on 24 Feb 2014. We both are in a second marriage. from the start i am facing issues with my inlaws. as i was a working women i didnt knew most of the dishes to cook and the dishes which i cook are being disregarded stating it is not up-to-the mark as required. I was never perfect in household work as i never used to do it before due to which i have been faced domestic voilence by inlaws, and even husband supported them (Mother and sister in law). later we had a son, i was not allowed to feed him stating i dont know how to feed. was then again assulted and faced domestic voilence for not cleaning the baby's potty and not taking good care of him. or not knowing how to take care of the baby. they never use to give the baby to me to take care, always told to do household work and i use to cry for my baby. once day i took a step, contacted an NGO, did a police complaint took the babys custody with me and went to moms place. after this my inlaws and husband came to me telling this will not happen again and all. i closed the complaint and went back again with my inlaws. starting 4-5 months were ok as at the time of closing the case i was informed by counsellor to try to work hard and to the inlaws not to take crime in hands. being a working women i used to get tired and inlaws use to give me more n more work senslessly due to which i found myself incompetence. at work i always used to be depressed and now inlaws have started frightning me that the case which you did against us will be now punishable for you only...pleas advise as per the new rules what needs to be done next. as my husband is also not supporting me. there are many many casses happened for which i cant type so much. please advise
need urgent advice
Hi there,
me and my husband tied knots on 24 Feb 2014. We both are in a second marriage. from the start i am facing issues with my inlaws. as i was a working women i didnt knew most of the dishes to cook and the dishes which i cook are being disregarded stating it is not up-to-the mark as required. I was never perfect in household work as i never used to do it before due to which i have been faced domestic voilence by inlaws, and even husband supported them (Mother and sister in law). later we had a son, i was not allowed to feed him stating i dont know how to feed. was then again assulted and faced domestic voilence for not cleaning the baby's potty and not taking good care of him. or not knowing how to take care of the baby. they never use to give the baby to me to take care, always told to do household work and i use to cry for my baby. once day i took a step, contacted an NGO, did a police complaint took the babys custody with me and went to moms place. after this my inlaws and husband came to me telling this will not happen again and all. i closed the complaint and went back again with my inlaws. starting 4-5 months were ok as at the time of closing the case i was informed by counsellor to try to work hard and to the inlaws not to take crime in hands. being a working women i used to get tired and inlaws use to give me more n more work senslessly due to which i found myself incompetence. at work i always used to be depressed and now inlaws have started frightning me that the case which you did against us will be now punishable for you only...pleas advise as per the new rules what needs to be done next. as my husband is also not supporting me. there are many many casses happened for which i cant type so much. please advise