divorce was filed by husband....now mediation is pending in family court...... hearing is in end of august...... on the other hand i have exchanged lot of messages with my husband....... so can he skip the medaition by saying that since we have exchanged messages so now there is no need of mediation ????? will the judge also say that since maine mere husband se messages pe itni baatein karli hain toh mediation cancel ho jaani chahiye ????