Brother, do not be as stupid as to commit suicide. If it makes u feel better: a lot of men r suffering the way u r. U r not alone so be strong. These fabricated dowry/cruelty related cases r needlessly wasting the most productive years of countless men of India. The government is not doing anything to stop this kind of harassment but it talks big like, “we need to stop the brain-drain from India to other countries.”
This 498a, DP Act, and the likes r a constant mental torture to men who r dealing with these laws. These laws r nothing more than tools for blackmailing. Along with laws, the judges r no less of a harassment to men. I was having lunch with a session judge’s reader and he said that there was a judge who he worked with and a husband was saying to this judge that these r all false allegations. The judge interrupted the husband with banging his fist hard on the table and the judge said to the husband, “when u leave somebody’s daughter, off course they r gonna put these false allegations.” Then the judge gave the husband one month for an amicable solution and threatened him that he will be sent to jail if no solution is arrived at.
One oldy-goldy from my mother’s maiden village came to our home with an intention of becoming an ambassador for me to my inlaws to solve everything. He told me he has solved many issues. One story he told was of a woman whose husband had filed a divorce case. He said, “so I gave her an idea to put a false case of physical violence on the husband, husband’s parents, husband’s sister, and husband’s brother-in-law.” He said that the wife was very happy on the first hearing of the criminal trial and the wife said, “thanks uncle, in the divorce case only a few people were coming but in this new case, their whole village is here.” He said he ended up getting 5 lakhs for the wife. He was telling a lot of stories and he was declaring again and again that judges do not listen to men and they favour women. I mean the guy scared my whole family and my family got concerned about me. My mother’s face remained pale for the whole day. The sad thing is that I can confidently say that every word he said, during a few hours of his visit, was true. Almost all laws and almost all judges swing towards women. Someone who has never stepped into the courtroom against a woman, has no idea of what men face in the courtrooms.